Expert: Jenny - 6/16/2008

Question
okay so the person i like,mark, he likes my bestfreind hannah. and we just broke up. i broke up with him bc i felt we rushed into getting into the relationship. so i said we need to get to know eachother more. as soon as he met hannah he started asking me about her and everything. i was wondering why does he care? and then after we broke up  i asked him if he liked her and he said i dont know why? and i knew from that moment he liked her. and now it has me very confused. be hes talking to her like he use to talk to me. always using smiley faces and what not..i texted him sayin how i felt and he needs to call me. i hope he does. but even hannah says he doesnt know her to like her, he met her ONCE!! what do you think i should do?
sincerely,
Kayla Swiech

Answer
Ok Kayla,
As I read what you wrote it seemed kind of weird how he asked YOU about your friend, having recently broken up with you. As I see it, he might want you to get jealous or interested in knowing why he wants to know about her.
Another thing, If you broke up the relationship because YOU thought it was going too fast then let him find a relationship elsewhere. He probably needs to rush into a relationship to feel and give love. He might not agree with you into why you broke it up.
I think if you still like him, then date him, not as boyfriend and girlfriend, but as dates. Go out to the movies, to a park or just hang around with him. Get to know him more being with him, not being his friend.
If you think you can't do this then let him talk to hannah. She might be willing to give him that relationship he really desires.
Think about it girl.