About Jenny Expertise I can answer questions about how to deal with a cheating boyfriend/husband. Questions about the anxiety of always wanting to know what your man is doing. I can give expert advice as to why is your bf/gf acting the way they're acting. Basically I can answer anything that has to deal with Jealousy and Control issues.
Experience I've had many real-life experiences in which I can relate to the writer. I took a few Psychology classes back in 2007 and I'm dealing with the subject.
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Education/Credentials High School Diploma
Currently enrolled in the Medical field in college.
Question me and bryan have been together for about 6 months now, he has cheated on me 3 times already (that i know of)..of course i gave him another chance..hes got a baby by his ex girlfriend and he doesnt want anything to do with her or the baby (they live back in tennessee)..i dont think its right..but its his decision, so i try to stay out of that one, but he is wayy to jealous, he gets mad whenever i get on the computer and talk to other guys that ive known longer than him, its wrong and its annoying, if anyone should be getting suspicious it should be me...
he just moved up here to michigan with me and my mom and hes away from all of his family and friends..so i dont know what to do..please help..i dont want this relationship to fall apart!
Answer Magen, as an expert all I could tell you is one day just sit down and think about your situation cuz' I don't think you have really done that. If he cheated on you 3 times in 6 months, what are you still doing with him??? He will definitely continue doing it, no matter what he tells you, He's not ready for a relationship. Another thing I wanted to advice you is have you ever thought about why he doesn't want to be in his child's life? What guarantees you that if you come out pregnant he won't want to be in your child's life also?!.
Im really strict about this subject because men like the one you're telling me are definitely not ready to be with someone else...NO MATTER IF HE LOVES YOU OR NOT!!!!
If the excuse is that he hates his baby's mother then that's no reason not to want to be in his child's life, and if the excuse is that he doesn't know if the baby is his or not then why hasn't he gotten a DNA test?.
About the computer issue, People tend to get mad at things that they do or have done in the past. Ima put an example:
Let's say you had a guy calling your phone and you're doing something with this guy, and yet you turn off your phone every time you're with your boyfriend because you don't want the other guy to call while you're with your real man. Now, lets say every time your boyfriend is with you he turns off his phone, wouldn't you get mad at the thought that he might be doing the same thing you're doing? wouldn't you let him know you dont want him turning off his phone because you might think he doesn't want another girl calling him while you're with him?
Then I proved my point!!! His concience is not letting him trust you when you're talking to these other guys.
You should think about yourself. 6 months is not a long time to build a life with someone and by the way this relationship is going, you're just going to waste your time by staying with someone who cheats on you every 2 months. I know you don't trust him and you never will no matter what you're thinking right now. Love yourself right now girl and sit down and think about your life and your future.
