About Jenny Expertise I can answer questions about how to deal with a cheating boyfriend/husband. Questions about the anxiety of always wanting to know what your man is doing. I can give expert advice as to why is your bf/gf acting the way they're acting. Basically I can answer anything that has to deal with Jealousy and Control issues.
Experience I've had many real-life experiences in which I can relate to the writer. I took a few Psychology classes back in 2007 and I'm dealing with the subject.
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Question hey jenny..
well... my boyfriend gavin and i have been dating for about a month. and before we were dating we were the bestest of friends. and we were always completly cool and everything. and then.. one day.. he discovered one of his neighbors..who happens to be a girl. and from then on gavin and this girl are ALWAYS together. from when they wake up, til they go to bed they're together..
and ever since he has been hanging out with her, he's been acting.. different and weird. and he's been acting different to me: like mean and rude.
and one time i said like the slightest thing about this girl and he about flipped out. he pretty much threatened to break up with me if i had a problem with her or if i was jealous..
and just recently he told me he wanted some space away from me, but the thing is: he never talks to me, never calls me or texts me, and never hangs out with me and he wants space from me, but.. he is ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS with this girl and he is just fine with her, and doesnt want any space from her..
doesnt this sound weird to you?? i mean.. im just really confused. and not sure what to do.. is he trying to make me jealous? should i break up with him? should i talk to him? if so, how????? i am open for ANY suggestions..
thanks ya bunches :]
Answer Abigail, I really do hope you follow the advice I will give you. It's for the best.
BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! In all my years of being an expert I can definitely say that his behavior is unique.
He certainly has feelings for this girl and probably doesn't know how to let you know that he would rather stay friends with you. You did mention you two were the closest friends and that may be one of the reasons he doesn't want to hurt your feelings so he'd rather not tell you anything yet.
Girl, you're better than to be standing around waiting for a guy to call you or text you, and you knowing he's always with another girl. Let him go. Sit him down and tell him that it's probably best if you guys stay friends. And noooo sweety, he's not trying to make you jealous, he's just in a situation where he doesn't know how to break it off with you and still be your friend.
Be the bigger person and tell him that is ok. In the near future, you'll thank me.
