Expert: Julianna - 8/8/2008

Question
hi my problem is bit complicated as i hope you can really help me because im fed up with it yet not despaired well me and my boyfriend broke many times before because of jealousy stuffs as he was always mad when i have to go out with friends or anything else what made me get him back for the last times that we broke up , now he doesn't call much nor even ask me to go out with respect i still love him and feel he doesn't love me the same anymore i want him to trust me and love me the same i do ,beside i want him to care about me as much as i do ,he just sometimes making me feel bad about myself and whenever i talk to him about that he is just give me the cold shoulder and say baby i do love you and i do care about you .
that really hurts when you love some one that much and in return you get nothing tell me what to do and please done ask me to move on cause i really do love him .

Answer
Dear Sara,
I think your boyfriend may be slightly fed up too, because you guys broke up so many times. I think the best thing to do, is to show him in every way you can, that you care about him so much. But don't come off clingy. Eventually he should be loving you just the same. For now I wouldn't force the overall situation on him, he seems like he might lose his temper any moment. But I'm not sure. He tells you he loves you, he's not getting jealous anymore like you said. I hope my advice helps.