About Julianna Expertise Jealousy, whether it's your friend, your bf/gf, ex-sweetheart, you or even your own sister, I can help you. I can tell you how to make someone jealous, I can figuire out if a certain person is jealous of you. I can tell you how to stop someone from feeling jealous, I can even tell you how to make everyone around you jealous of you.
Experience I deal with being envyed all the time and I know exactly how to deal with all types of these situations. I know how to take the high road and I know when it's time to get even. I am a fair person too.
I just moved to Atlanta, GA from Alabama to go to college in March. By April I'd made 2 great friends, one of which is my neighbor and sadly the other one moved away last month.
But my neighbor, Jasmine, we used to be roommates and then since I have cats and she had a bf, we got separate apartments but in the same complex.
But, she and her bf broke up, and she has men falling at her feet at every corner. she's tall and very thin and is pretty.
and I feel kind of jealous because I'm short and fat, and every guy we meet, "Can you hook me up with your friend?"
NO!!!!
She isn't that type of girl at all anyway, but I still get jealous but I don't want to be. Everyone we meet.. when we are together it's like they completely look past me and only notice her.
she's a really good friend. she has helped me so much since I moved here, and she has helped me boost my self esteem and confidence so much.
but I still get jealous, because I feel lonely sometimes. I don't necessarily WANT a man in my life, but sometimes I get sad and wish I did have someone.
I really don't want to get jealous over her having guys following her around even if she doesn't want anything to do with them. (because the type of person she is, she doesn't like a lot of male attention)
I'm just sad. help? words of wisdom? anything?
Answer Dear Kayla,
I understand how much your friendship with Jasmine means to you, and it's good that you don't want to be jealous. That is the first step to not being Jealous at all.
My advice to you, is to not look at how much attention Jasmine's getting, but to focus on your inner qualities and what makes you unique. The outer appearance, though it is a big player in the game of dating, isn't everything in the long round.
Think about it, at the end of the line, we all end up old and wrinkly; it is our interests, experiences and inner beauty that holds two people together, not their supermodel looks.
There is so much more that you can do to get guys glance your way;
I'm not so sure what your into, but pursuing your goals and expressing yourself on the outside really helps. For example: dressing in clothes that bring out your personality. Anything you choose to do, do it with confidence. Because thats another thing that guys are attracted to.
I hope my advice helps; it's all I could think of at the moment, if you need more help, feel free to write to me again. =]
- Thanks, Jules
