Expert: Julianna - 8/25/2008

Question
hi i've never been the jealous type... but now i get jealous over the littles thing... i can't stand my husband looking at porn or talking to his old girl who are friends who he use to like and they use to like him too. i can't handle it. even looking at pic. he try's to hide it and save them on his phone now he keeps his phone key locked i can't take it. i've already talk to him but it seems like he doesn't care how i feel cause he's still doin it. it real hurts and i  can't take it. wat should i do? cause i can't take.

Answer
Dear Deanna,
You need to try having one last serious discussion with your husband.
If it fails, I suggest getting out and living a little, not stopping to his level ofcourse, but just being out with friends, or shopping, even going for a walk around town.

This will get your mind off things and make him start to see that you mean buisness. Just try having fun, and don't let the things he does even cross your mind. Sometimes men just need a kick in the butt to get the picture.

Hope I helped, feel free to write to me again,
- Jules