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Question So about three weeks ago I was bored on AIM (aol instant messanger) and decided to joke around with this guy about hooking up/hanging out.
Then, two weeks ago, my ex-bf and I start talking again and are so excited to see each other when we get back to school and he tells me he doesn't have interest in any other girl except me. So from then on, we talk a lot and basically in a way we are dating because we dont want the other person to do stuff with other people.
So last night, my ex and his friend (the one I was messing with on AIM) are with each other and the the friend tells my ex about what I said to him.
So then, my ex calls me and I don't answer... but later I call him back and I notice that he has an angry tone to his voice. I was thinking "uh-oh, what did I do?" because I really couldn't think of anything...
Then on the phone he is really quiet and distant and i try talking to him but he says he has to go.... and i was like wait! and he was like no, bye.
So I text him and tell him he has 5 minutes to call me back.
Then he texts me and tells me I have 5 minutes to "fuck off".
So I was really worried because I had no idea what I did wrong... so I kept texting him and texting him until finally, like an hour later he calls me and tells me why he is mad (because of when I talked to his dumb friend on AIM) and that we are "done". I felt so bad. I wrote a big note to him on his facebook apologizing.
Now he isn't talking to me... and I texted him today saying that I was so sorry and I hope he knows that I care about him.
Personally, I think he is overreating a lot and for him to say we are "done" is really harsh, especially over something so stupid (I don't really want to get with his friend at all...I think I was just mad that at that time, my ex was being an ass).
So I don't know what to do...I don't want to lose him, I just want him to get over it...
help...
thanks :)
Answer Dear Christina,
the best way to get him back on your side, is actually approach him and tell him how you feel. Just tell him that you didn't mean what you told his friend, and tell him how much you care about him. You really pusshed the limit when you said "you have five minutes to call me back" that was not the time be pushy. You really just gotta be straight with him and tell him everything truthfully.
hope I helped,
- Jules
