Expert: Julianna - 9/25/2008

Question
So there was this guy- I cared for him and he was absolutely head over heels for me. But we weren't exactly going out because my stupid rule was "Don't date during Summer." But everyone kind of look at us as together because we always were. When he told me he was in love with me, I took advantage. I would embarss him in front of his friends, Curse him out all the time, Try real hard to get him mad or upset. I have no idea why I acted like that, I guess I took him for granted. So anyways this summer he went away about the last two weeks of it to Vermont with his family. We didn't talk while he was there because the night before he left, I told him I dont care about him and I hate him with pashion because he's so annoying. Than he came back and a week later, I realized I started missing him like crazzzzzzzzy ! So I e-mailed him, Saying hi and stuff- Basically he told me he never wanted to talk to me agian. And for about the past 3 months he's been treating me the way I treat him. Yet I deny that I like him because that will most definatly give him more power and when I have done that in the past he laughed .
I drove to his house to apologize, I wrote him long things on myspace and AIM. I tried talking to him on the phone but I couldn't help but cry.

I really dont know what to do and Ive tried everything to make him wish he had me but it doesn't work.
This is something I can not get over.
Please tell me how I could slowly start getting his attention and want me back.

Pleassseeee :(

Answer
Dear Donna,
If he has no interest in you, then he has no interest in you. Whether or not you used to like him over the summer, does not matter anymore. Summer is over, its time to move on if hes done. Dont gawk over him and make a fool of yourself, trust me, its not worth it.