About Anisa Expertise I can answer any questions relating to jealousy, envy and self esteem in any relationship (dating, marriage, friendship, etc). I have personal experience with dealing with jealousy and can help you overcome these issues and improve your self esteem.
Experience I can answer any questions relating to jealousy, envy and self esteem in any relationship (dating, marriage, friendship, etc). I have personal experience with dealing with jealousy and can help you get through these issues.
Education/Credentials BS Family Sciences, BA Social Psychology
Question I was married for 20 years with no jealousy or insecurities my wife died 2 years ago and now I'm dating a woman heres the thing why is it when she wears certain clothes (low cut tops ) it bothers me and i start to think of dumb things. I know she would never cheat on me but it still bothers me. Why is that can someone help me
Answer Hi Dave,
First, I think it's great that you do trust her and have confidence she will not cheat on you.
When she wears certain clothes, it bothers you because you are being protective of her. You are dating a beautiful woman who "belongs" to you, which means you feel like she is for your eyes only. It makes sense to become a little annoyed if others look at her the same way. Just know that she dresses this way because it makes her (and you) happy and she is not trying to attract attention from anyone else. I hope this helps.
