Expert: Anisa - 7/17/2009

Question
hello Anisa

im a 24 year old girl who's been in a serious relation with a guy for a year now , but he is not jealous when i go out with a male friend ,and its driving me insane coz i feel jealous if he would do the same , im trying to make him feel it in so many different ways but he isnt , what should i do ? its really a big issue if he doesnt feel jealous that means his heart isnt fully mine , right ?
thank you

Answer
Hi Sally,

You are very lucky to have a boyfriend who does NOT get jealous. He is secure in his relationship, he trusts you, he understands that you would not hurt him. That's a good thing. Sometimes, as a woman, it makes us feel good when a man gets jealous or fights over us -- it makes us feel loved and wanted. However, in your case, your boyfriend is not that kind of person. He loves you and trusts you...that's all that matters. Do not let it bother you. You are a lucky girl!