Expert: Anisa - 8/5/2009

Question
I'm tired of quarrelling with my husband every evening for the same reason-jealousy. We work together in a cyber cafe but what worries me is that he handles female clients very well than the male clients.The way he talks, smiles and looks at female clients sends my body shivering with fear of losing him soon.Each time I ask him about some of the women clients he had been talking too,he only smiles and takes it lightly.How do I deal with this? could he be cheating on me?

Answer
Hi Kangs,

There is no real proof that he is cheating on you. However, if his behavior is making you uncomfortable, you need to relay this information to him. Let him know you feel disrespected by his behavior towards the female clients and ask that he stop. You are his wife, you have priority over any woman and as your husband, he should respect your wishes.