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I can answer any questions relating to jealousy, envy and self esteem in any relationship (dating, marriage, friendship, etc). I have personal experience with dealing with jealousy and can help you overcome these issues and improve your self esteem.

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I can answer any questions relating to jealousy, envy and self esteem in any relationship (dating, marriage, friendship, etc). I have personal experience with dealing with jealousy and can help you get through these issues.

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BS Family Sciences, BA Social Psychology

 
   

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How to Deal with Jealousy/How to Make One Jealous - unwanted jealous


Expert: Anisa - 8/3/2009

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Hi, I don't think i have a jealousy problem but, i can't help but feel jealous when I get on myspace and read my ex- boyfriends status saying he went over to his girlfriends house and how they had a lot of fun or when he says: tired, I shouldn't of stayed on the phone last night till 2 talking to her but it was worth it... and little things like that. If i get even a little jealous just reading that over the Internet i can't imagine how it would be like at school. I want to be a happy person with no worries and that is really going to depress me. My sister thinks all he's doing is hurting my pride. I don't know if this is true but she does know me better than i know myself. I do remember that towards the end of our relationship I was getting really annoyed with him and i couldn't stand him because he was so moody and wouldn't let me talk to any of my guy friends. If he wasn't with anybody I don't think I would care... but I kinda do. I really don't want to go back to school and get really angry because i always see them together. Then my whole day will suck.


please help me

Answer
Hi Vivi,

I agree with your sister, he is just doing this to 'show off' his relationship, which probably isn't as wonderful as he is making it out to be. Focus on yourself; think of all the things that make YOU happy and keep yourself busy with those things (whether it's friends, family, hobbies, etc). Never let someone bring you down like this. He is not worth ruining your whole day!

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