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Arkady,

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. We love eachother very much and we both know marriage is definitely in the future. However, I have a problem in which i feel can be a major flaw. My boyfriend is extremely jealous over just about anything. If i wear a certain color he will say bad things and get mad. When I am walking to his car and someone checks me out he will be so close to punching their lights out. I know his actions are b/c he loves me but why cant he understand i belong to him?

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Hey, Dana. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy can be a poison to any relationship and it can suffocate a partner who subjected to jealousy.

I wouuld like for you and your boyfriend to read one of my articles that I wrote on jealousy.  

Go to www.practicalhappiness.com/blog and search under jealousy to find "How to Overcome Jealousy" article.  

Then, have him watch my video tip here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCozmtoyh8Y

I hope this helps. If not, please follow up.

And if you found this helpful, please rate me on this site and comment on my work.

A.I.
www.PracticalHappiness.com

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I can answer questions regarding how to deal with one's own jealousy and how to deal with the jealosy of the partner / lover and how you can liberate yourself from this destructive emotion. Learn more about me and my work at www.PracticalHappiness.com

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I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.

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