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Experience I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.
Question I am so jealous over my boyfriend. He can go to work and I am constantly calling him asking him where hes at and who he is talking to. I think I have a huge guilty concience because I did cheat on with him with someone he knows very very well but I had found out before I cheated on him that he was going places getting phone numbers from girls. And then he kept watching porn behind my back and it really upsets me to know that he has to masterbate to another woman. But anyways I have to call him all the time while hes at work and if he goes anywhere. I have completely stopped his friends coming around the house because they cant stand me because I dont let him go anywhere with them anymore because I dont trust him. He makes me feel like shit when we go somewhere because he is always trying to eyeball another girl when he thinks im not looking but I always see him when he does it and it makes me so mad I will cry right there wherever we are at. I need some major advice on what I need to do. I got pregnant by this guy this year and we lost the baby when I was 6 1/2 months pregnant and it has went down hill tremendously since that happened. I want us to have a normal relationship and I want to know why in the world he doesnt get jealous if i look at guys. He only gets jealous if I come around the guy i cheated on him with and he wont even let me look at him. I am so lost and dont know what to do. I dont want this to be a waste of 3 years. I love him so much and I know its 99% my fault and I want to try and fix it while we're still hanging on. Please help me!
Answer Hi, Danielle. Thanks for your question. Indded, jealousy is one of the worst poisons of a relationship. But guess what, recognizing that you have a problem is a first, essential step to fixing it and you have already made it.
I believe that you will find my article on jealousy to be very helpful.
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