Expert: PracticalHappiness.com - 1/4/2007

Question
My boyfriend of about 5 months recently went to the stripclubs and i didn't care until i found out that he went on stage but the dollar in his mouth and put it into her bra. Then she took his shirt and belt of and hit it with him Is is a big deal to care that he is doing that even if I know that hes not doing anything else with them?

Answer
Hey, Sara. Thanks for your question. Yes, if that's the only thing he did that made you worry. You have nothing to worry about. In fact, you should be happy! He is a healthy, heterosexual guy with a healthy sex drive. Does he enjoy checking out other women? Sure he does! And he is honest about it! All the more power to you and him.     

If he doesn't show any signs of infidelity, perceive what he did at a strip club as a typical male behavior and don't take it personally.  

Thanks, and feel free to follow up.

Arkady Itkin
www.PracticalHappiness.com