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Experience I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.
Question Just the other day I met this girl. She's 17, I'm 18. I was with my friend at the time and told her to bring a friend along who's 16. She told me who she was bringing and I realized it was a girl who I've had a crush on the entire year but never got to know her. I told my friend about her and that I've had a crush on her for a while and he said go for it. So I started talking to her and she tells me that she always thought I was good looking. Later that night, since she had my screen name, out of no where she messages me on aim (she had my screen name from a while back) and we talk for a little while and she ends up asking me if I wanted her number. So I agreed and took her number down. Now since then she texts me just about once a day, and messages me on aim once a day. She usually tells me she's bored and has nothing to do so I'll have small talk with her and when I ask her if she wants to hang out, she usually makes an excuse. For example today she told me she was bored, and that she was probably going to be home all night, I asked if she wanted to hang out, and she told me she was hanging out with her sister. So I told her ok give me a call later. I don't show her that I adore her, instead I show that I'm interested. I feel I'm just not doing something right, but the question is, what? How do I get her to bite?
Answer Hi, Michael. I see that everything goes well. Obviously, she likes you, obviously she is interested in seeing you, so the main thing you should do is snap out of that texting / im'ing bs and have actualy conversation and set up the time and place to meet. Contacting you out of boredom isn't good enough. She should want to see you and that can be evoked by you being an attractive and desirable guy.
