About PracticalHappiness.com Expertise I can answer questions regarding how to deal with one's own jealousy and how to deal with the jealosy of the partner / lover and how you can liberate yourself from this destructive emotion.
Learn more about me and my work at www.PracticalHappiness.com
Experience I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.
Question Hello and before starting, thank you for your time!
I am dating a guy (i am a bi) for about 1 month and 3 weeks, and it seems we are both on love and things are going nice and neat! the problem is he knew a guy before me that never went on nothing, and then i met him and we started dating, but that guy now does not leave him alone, always tell him that he loves him, we wants to fu** him, etc etc. my boyfriend says he only want to keep his friendship and nothing more, and he already told that to him, but he (the other guy) keep pushing limits with non apropriate conversation! as you can realize i am not comfortable with this situation, now my question is.. should i be concern, or jealous?
Thank you for your time!
Answer Hey, Ricky. I don't think you should be concerned. It sounds like the guy you are dating doesn't want to go "there" with that other guy. Besides, if anyone, your guy should be the one taking a hard line and not letting the other guy get close to him. It really isn't your job to keep them away from each other.
In sum, since your guy doesn't want to do anything with the other guy and assuming that it's true, you shouldn't be concerned or jealous.
