About PracticalHappiness.com Expertise I can answer questions regarding how to deal with one's own jealousy and how to deal with the jealosy of the partner / lover and how you can liberate yourself from this destructive emotion.
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Experience I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.
Question Alright, im a mess. i spent a year with my ex girlfriend (we were together till last month). My parents made it impossible to see her. I broke every rule i could to see her. i snuck out, walked 2 and a half hours to her house just to see her (of course after walking that far we had to have sex). any way we have got into some nasty fights, she has made it clear shes over me, she has done stuff with 2 diff guys at least. the only confusing part is that in between the 2 guys she did stuff with WE had sex. she said she wanted to see if she felt anything any more and she said no. you know how i said that i snuck out to her house. well once i got my permit i borrowed my moms car and drove to her house. i crashed at 3 in the morning practicly making my life worthless. if i thought b4 it was hard to see her omg. any way since we could never hang out that led to our separation. i never stoped loving her and i think im just realizing its over for good. she is being really nasty, and doesnt get that she meant the world to me.
how do i show her that i care about her if she wants nothing to do with me? how do i get completely over her and is there anything i could do to make her jealous. and would making her jealus even do anything, im afraid shell just up the ante and do somthing back thats worse. i dont kno dude, i cant sleep cuz i can only think about what i sacrificed to be with her, and just like that shes over me. she was my first man, im layin myself at your mercy.
Answer Hey, Chase. Thanks for your question. Before I go any further, I would like for you to go to my site at www.practicalhappiness.com click on "dating blog" and once you are on the blog home page click on the category "breaking up" so that you can read the article "How to get over a break up" - I believe it will be a very good start to getting over this girl.
With regard to show to that girl that you still care about her... this is the last and the worst thing you can do at this point. Making her jealous or otherwise chasing her with your thoughts and actions will drain you physically and emotionally. This is the time to rise above it, and move on! Leave the past behind. You are very young so you have nothing to worry about.
Thanks, and I hope this helps. If not, please follow up.
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