About PracticalHappiness.com Expertise I can answer questions regarding how to deal with one's own jealousy and how to deal with the jealosy of the partner / lover and how you can liberate yourself from this destructive emotion.
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Experience I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.
Question I've been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year and 9 months. Lately he's been very inconsiderate and how can I put this? A freakin' jerk. I think he's getting sick of me. I'm 19 years old. He was my first everything. First kiss, first to lose my virginity to, first boyfriend..everything. He used to tell me I meant the world to him and that I was the reason he lived now it seems like I'm the reason he's not "living." All he ever wants to do know is get stoned and chill with his friends. I don't care. He can do whatever he wants I just wish he would be more understanding and SHOW ME THAT HE CARES instead of saying it. Actions speak louder than words and his actions have just been telling me that he's had enough. I guess I can be jealous a lot because i can't really trust him anymore because he kissed another girl once. I guess I can be controlling at times to. But I have no one else really. I mean I have my family and a couple of friends I can call, but he's all I think about. I love him to death and I don't want to end what we have. I just need some major advice. :( How do I make my boyfriend care again? appreciate me again? show me that he loves me again? I don't know what to do anymore and I'm sick of crying over him. Please give me some advice.
Answer Hello. Thanks for your question, and I am sorry about your situation. Before I can answer it, please elaborate exactly what makes you unhappy about his behavior. Also, give some specific examples of hsi behavior and also examples of how you come across as controlling and jealous.
