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| Subject | Date Asked |
| Jealous from low self esteem | 10/21/2009 |
| Q: I really need some advice regarding my 3.5 year relationship, I am so unhappy in it. I know that ... A: First of all, you have EVERY right to be upset with your boyfriend's behavior. Your body issues and ... | |
| I'm Jealous... | 10/20/2009 |
| Q: I am so extremely jealous of my best friend in the whole wide world. We are both juniors in high ... A: Honestly, you have nothing to be jealous of. From what you described, your best friend is ... | |
| Jealously.. | 10/17/2009 |
| Q: Hey Anisa. Female 13. I have this HUGE crush on one of my good friends. But since I met him, he told ... A: I have to tell you, you definitely have the upper hand here. He wants to date those two other girls. ... | |
| Exposing Clothing | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: I am always very bothered when my girlfriend wears exposing clothes in public. I ask her to button ... A: Some people enjoy attention, regardless if they are in a committed relationship or not. Sometimes ... | |
| Why am I so jealous? | 9/24/2009 |
| Q: I got so mad today... well not mad but upset. My ex friend can sing really well, and I guess I've ... A: It could mean one of two things: 1) You frequently get attention and are a little jealous that this ... | |
| Extreme jealousy/trust issues | 9/23/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a rut in my relationship and I don't know where to turn. (I guess I just need some ... A: You are, by no means, jealous. You are a red blooded human person and your reactions to your ... | |
| Jealousy problem | 9/22/2009 |
| Q: Hey Anisa, I have been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. And things are going great. We ... A: Yes, there are things you can do. First, remind yourself that you are an amazing person and you ... | |
| stalker at work | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: I don't know where to begin. I work in a big fancy building downtown that has several fancy ... A: The mature thing to do would be to file a police report, IF his 'stalking' his making the girls ... | |
| Jealousy problem | 9/21/2009 |
| Q: Hey Anisa, I have been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. And things are going great. We ... A: Usually, feelings of jealousy are associated with one's self esteem. Your girlfriend is faithful and ... | |
| dating | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: i have a girlfriend . she use to like only me but now other boys like her too and she is intersested ... A: There is nothing you can do make other boys not like your girlfriend. If she is attractive and ... | |
| crushh. | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: theres this boy and a few months ago he knew i liked him. and my x boyfrined tried to bash him & ... A: There is nothing you can do about the girl. Nobody can make you jealous, only YOU control how you ... | |
| Hi | 9/8/2009 |
| Q: Okay, I can't date until I'm 18. I met this guy A in January, and at the time he had a girlfriend, ... A: Allie. I asked your ages because it would better help me map out an achievable plan for you. ... | |
| My current relationship with my girlfriend | 8/31/2009 |
| Q: Hey hey hey my name is Vinny and I am 17 years old. I am currently dating this girl named Bridget ... A: Vinny. One way to keep your relationship close is to change things up a bit. Right now you spend a ... | |
| Old girlfriend. | 8/29/2009 |
| Q: When I was around 9 a girl moved beside me. We soon became best friends then we began to to like ... A: I do not condone breaking up relationships. If she still loves you she will follow her heart and be ... | |
| dealing with jealousy | 8/26/2009 |
| Q: We have been married 4 years and I admit I have been a very jealous and controlling person toward my ... A: I agree with you...texting and emailing other men is disrespectful and since it makes you very ... | |
| How to get over jealousy! | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i are 2 very jealous people. We've been together for over a year now, and i can't ... A: Since you are in a relationship with him (and he is in a relationship with you) you should both ... | |
| My boyfriend is a HUGE flirt | 8/17/2009 |
| Q: Never in my life would I have tagged myself as a jealous girlfriend but when it comes to my current ... A: It does not sound like you are a jealous person; I think any woman in your situation would feel ... | |
| Help! Trust Issues | 8/16/2009 |
| Q: Hey Anisa, My name's Jessica I'm dating this really amazing guy named Daniel and were both 18. I ... A: Unfortunately, we have ALL been through this very same situation. It only takes one jerk to ruin our ... | |
| Ex girlfriend, Depression. | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: This question deals with an ex girlfriend of mine and how I am reacting. Okay well to start off, I ... A: Isaiah, It is NEVER worth hurting yourself over a girl. You are only 15 years old, I guarantee you ... | |
| JEALOUSY | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY THAT I HAVE BEEN DATING ON AND OFF FOR THE PAST SIX YEARS. HE WAS ... A: Since you have no proof that he has ever cheated on you, it is completely unfair to him for you to ... | |
| My past is biting me in the ass! | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: My bf and I have been together over 4 months but I have known him since birth. Our moms have been ... A: This is actually something he will have to work out on his own. In a perfect world, none of would ... | |
| Jelousy at work | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: I'm tired of quarrelling with my husband every evening for the same reason-jealousy. We work ... A: There is no real proof that he is cheating on you. However, if his behavior is making you ... | |
| Boyfriend flirting | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: My bf is a natural flirt. At first I hated it, but then I got over it. My dad cheated on my mother ... A: I do not believe that asking for respect has anything to do with insecurity. It does not matter that ... | |
| JEALOUSY | 8/4/2009 |
| Q: I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY THAT I HAVE BEEN DATING ON AND OFF FOR THE PAST SIX YEARS. HE WAS ... A: You have some trust issues that you need to get through in order for this relationship to move ... | |
| is he trying to get me jealous? | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: Hey Anisa, I'm 14, and I have this friend who's a guy (we'll call him "Joe") that i've known for ... A: Joe's behavior is very confusing which can be hard to interpret. The fact that he does not like Amy, ... | |
| unwanted jealous | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: I don't think i have a jealousy problem but, i can't help but feel jealous when I get on myspace and ... A: I agree with your sister, he is just doing this to 'show off' his relationship, which probably isn't ... | |
| jealousy in my relationship | 7/30/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for quite awhile now. I have always been a little ... A: It makes sense that you have no trust based on your previous relationship (I do believe that any ... | |
| jealous of her past | 7/29/2009 |
| Q: O.K, first off, a little back story so you don't get the wrong idea. I was madly in love with my ... A: No matter who you are in a relationship with, that person will have a past. It would be a wonderful ... | |
| How to deal with jealousy after an infidelity | 7/29/2009 |
| Q: I'm passing through a difficult and painful period. I've been in a relationship with this guy for a ... A: First of all, there should not be a wedding or a relationship for that matter until you have trust ... | |
| jealousy | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: im a 24 year old girl who's been in a serious relation with a guy for a year now , but he is not ... A: You are very lucky to have a boyfriend who does NOT get jealous. He is secure in his relationship, ... | |
| Jealous Girlfriend. | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: Ok, this is going to be an earful, but here goes. I have a girlfriend that I have had for almost 2 ... A: For one, it sounds like she has self esteem issues. Not being able to 'live' without you and staying ... | |
| The perfect date led to serious jealousy... | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: In May, I was introduced to someone through a coworker. He's a firefighter, who wants to advance ... A: It doesn't sound like the firefighter is into you (I know, that sounds lame considering it's the ... | |
| Way Too Jealous | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: Five years ago, when my boyfriend and I first started dating he stayed the night with one of my best ... A: You definitely have trust issues with your boyfriend. Without trust, there's no way this ... | |
| how to deal with an ex | 7/5/2009 |
| Q: hey anisa, okay i was going out with this guy for 9 months and we had this really bad break up. ... A: First, do you want to remain friends? If so, could you just talk to him? Ask him why he deleted and ... | |
| Best Friend/Jealosy | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: Ok, so I am in a gay relationship and we both love eachother. We are seriously very happy together ... A: Have you talked with your lover about this? Of course you do not want drama, it makes it so hard to ... | |
| I'm changing | 7/2/2009 |
| Q: I am currently 24 years old. I have been through a few heartbreaking for me, breaking the guys heart ... A: Unfortunately, you can not "fix" him. He is the person he is and you will have to accept it. Are you ... | |
| jealous. | 6/30/2009 |
| Q: I had a boyfriend that used to cheat on me all the time. He was a complete player. His actions ... A: I understand the emotions you are going through. Once a person has been cheated on, it is so much ... | |
| Jealousy | 6/29/2009 |
| Q: Why is it when ever my girlfriend wears low cut tops it bothers me and i feel the need to say ... A: I couldn't speak for your girlfriend, but some women dress in a provocative manner because it makes ... | |
| Jealousy | 6/25/2009 |
| Q: I was married for 20 years with no jealousy or insecurities my wife died 2 years ago and now I'm ... A: First, I think it's great that you do trust her and have confidence she will not cheat on you. ... | |
Anisa
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I can answer any questions relating to jealousy, envy and self esteem in any relationship (dating, marriage, friendship, etc). I have personal experience with dealing with jealousy and can help you overcome these issues and improve your self esteem.
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I can answer any questions relating to jealousy, envy and self esteem in any relationship (dating, marriage, friendship, etc). I have personal experience with dealing with jealousy and can help you get through these issues.
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BS Family Sciences, BA Social Psychology
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