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I can answer questions regarding how to deal with one's own jealousy and how to deal with the jealosy of the partner / lover and how you can liberate yourself from this destructive emotion. Learn more about me and my work at www.PracticalHappiness.com

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I overcome serious jealousy issues with conscious work and effort, and that was a very liberating experience. I also helped several people to abandon their jealous behavior and line of thinking.

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M.A. in Philosophy

   

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His Jealous Heart3/11/2008
  Q: I am sad, confused en frustrated. I love my boyfriend very much and feel truly connected to him on ...
  A: Hey, Wendy. Thanks for your question. I wrote an article that helped thousands of people around the ...
The Female Mind3/10/2008
  Q: My girlfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me yesterday for the stupidest possible reason. ...
  A: Hey, Joe. I am sorry about your experience. Here is the article I wrote that helped a lot of ...
Girlfriend trouble/ insecurities3/8/2008
  Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year now, and we have run into problems. i have ...
  A: Hey, Brandon. Thanks for your question. I wrote an article on your issue that proved to be helpful ...
sexual past2/29/2008
  Q: I have been seeing a wonderful wonderful girl for 3 months now and I am for the most part really ...
  A: Great question. Please read my article at the link below. I believe it will address your question. ...
Jealousy1/28/2008
  Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now. The relationship between us is perfect, we aren't ...
  A: Hey, Jacky. Thanks for your question. They way to get rid of your jealousy is by starting to realize ...
Help1/2/2008
  Q: My name is Cheryl. I'm 44 years old. I have had alot of bad experiences in my life. I've been ...
  A: Well, you owe it to yourself Cheryl to stop worrying for no reason and to start assuming the best ...
how to deal with my emotions?1/1/2008
  Q: To anyone who may concern, i need your opinion about dealing with my emotions.this is what ...
  A: Hey, Lzura. Obviously, I don't know all the facts and I only hear your side, but one thing is clear. ...
how to deal with my emotions?12/31/2007
  Q: To anyone who may concern, i need your opinion about dealing with my emotions.this is what ...
  A: Hey, Lzura. I hate to say it, but lack of effective communication is a major flaw in a relationship ...
how to deal with my emotions?12/30/2007
  Q: To anyone who may concern, i need your opinion about dealing with my emotions.this is what ...
  A: Lzura. Thanks for your question. First, I wish I could tell your partner to ... "shut up" and not ...
Jealous feelings12/30/2007
  Q: I'm a 24 year old female and I've been in a committed relationship with my 25 year old boyfriend for ...
  A: Laura. Thanks for your question. Your issue is very, very typical of first-love / first relationship ...
insecurities12/26/2007
  Q: *I am dating a guy that I met on line and we talked and emailed for about 2 weeks before we met. It ...
  A: Dawn. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to know: 1. How old are you? 2. ...
jealous or not12/17/2007
  Q: Briefly, I'm engaged to a man that has these females friends that constantly call him. They are ...
  A: Hey, Belinda. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to know a few more details - ...
Girlfriend Trouble12/15/2007
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and 3 months. Since this summer I have moved ...
  A: Hey, Zach. Thanks for your question. I understand the trust issue that you have, however I have to ...
Dont know if she's physically attracted to me.12/9/2007
  Q: I am a 20 year old guy about to turn 21. I've been seeing this girl, who's a couple of months older ...
  A: Hey, Sean. Thanks for your kind words. I would hate to say that I can guarantee that you can undo ...
Jealousy is tearing me and my boyfriend apart12/7/2007
  Q: I am so jealous over my boyfriend. He can go to work and I am constantly calling him asking him ...
  A: Danielle. Thanks for your question. Indded, jealousy is one of the worst poisons of a relationship. ...
Dont know if she's physically attracted to me.12/7/2007
  Q: I am a 20 year old guy about to turn 21. I've been seeing this girl, who's a couple of months older ...
  A: Hey, Sean. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. Asking a woman to reassure you that ...
ignoring people12/5/2007
  Q: i really like this boy,but he seems to always ignore me ever since he found out that i liked him.I ...
  A: Hey, Kassandra. At this point, the best thing you can do is pursue other things and other guys, who ...
he still has pictures of his ex- wife11/25/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, we moved in together about a year ago. Since ...
  A: Hey, Elizabeth. Thanks for following up. I believe it's very important that you RESPECT his past. ...
he still has pictures of his ex- wife11/23/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, we moved in together about a year ago. Since ...
  A: Elizabeth. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to clarify a few things: 1. ...
jealousy11/22/2007
  Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now and things are really great, but sometimes i ...
  A: Kaitlynn. Your issue is typical and the way to overcome it is to just do this: 1. Respect each ...
help11/19/2007
  Q: my partner and i split and he took an 18 year old for a drink(40 mins in total as he realised it was ...
  A: Hey, Mandy. Whether those are his real intentions or not, his strategy is not the best. There is no ...
Stalling11/19/2007
  Q: Itkin, I am 21 and met my boyfriend whom is 31 a year and a half ago. He had been seperated from ...
  A: Kimora. Indeed, divorce is a lengthy, complex process, especially if spouses cannot agree on ...
checking email11/16/2007
  Q: I know you are going to tell me how awful I am. And I guess I agree to some extent. I have been ...
  A: Hey, Lourdes. Thanks for your question. You are not in an easy situation. I could see why you would ...
jealousy11/13/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. He's gorgeous in every way, except for his ...
  A: Samantha. This is only the case if you allow yourself to assume that when the guy is checking out ...
jealous co-worker11/12/2007
  Q: Over the past few months there is a co-worker who has been spilling vicious rumors about me, trying ...
  A: Kenya. One way to handle this is to have an in-person, heart to heart conversation with her where ...
Old Flame11/12/2007
  Q: My girlfriend of 2 years was contacted by an old flame from high school. My girlfriend and him are ...
  A: Hey, Jack. Thanks for your question. This is an opportunity for you to show your attractive male ...
first loves.11/11/2007
  Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year and 9 months. Lately he's been very inconsiderate and ...
  A: and I am sorry about your situation. Before I can answer it, please elaborate exactly what makes you ...
jealousy11/8/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. He's gorgeous in every way, except for his ...
  A: Hey, Samantha. Thanks for your question. It's very important to understand that men and women are ...
im pissed off, confused, and hurt11/3/2007
  Q: So i recently graduated high school and during my years in high school i was dating a girl for a ...
  A: Hey, Jeo. First I must comment on your writing. Such an ability to communicate is impressive for ...
I'm a little Jealous - Long Distance11/1/2007
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating into our third year. We met when we were in high school and now ...
  A: Hey, Shayne. Thanks for your question. I believe that my article on overcoming jealousy will give ...
what's wrong here?10/31/2007
  Q: I'm a 42 year old woman, divorced once, widowed once, and am now in a long-term relationship (7 ...
  A: Tess. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is a serious obstacle to a happy relationship and ...
My Girl Is Crazy!10/30/2007
  Q: Hey, I am 18 and my Girlfriend, Tiffany, is soon to be 18, 3 months. Before my question I should ...
  A: Hey, Evan. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jeaousy is a poison to any relationship and it's very ...
Help! He's way to jealous-10/26/2007
  Q: Arkady, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. We love eachother very much ...
  A: Hey, Dana. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy can be a poison to any relationship and it can ...
please read10/25/2007
  Q: about a year ago me and my boyfriend went out to this small party, we got into a big fight and i ...
  A: Sam. I believe the situation is pretty clear to me. First, with regard to porn and masturbation, ...
please read10/24/2007
  Q: about a year ago me and my boyfriend went out to this small party, we got into a big fight and i ...
  A: Sam. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about what happened. I believe it would be a better ...
Overtaken by jealousy10/23/2007
  Q: I am the most jealous person you will meet. I get jealous over every single thing. I hate when my ...
  A: Jane. Thanks for your question. The great news is that you have already made the first important ...
please help me10/22/2007
  Q: my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently dumped me. he is 37 and im 25. "i dont think i can get over it," ...
  A: Sarah. Surely an article is not going to cure you in one minute. What you feel is an emotion and it ...
please help me10/21/2007
  Q: my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently dumped me. he is 37 and im 25. "i dont think i can get over it," ...
  A: Sarah. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about your situation. It sounds like your boyfriend's ...
I can't help being jealous10/18/2007
  Q: I have been talking to this girl for a couple of months now. We are not dating, but we do talk a ...
  A: I see. Well, I see no reason why you shouldn't talk to her about it. You don't have to be ...
Boyfriend's sexual past10/15/2007
  Q: I found out, inadvertently, from a friend, about my boyfriend's recent sexual past and his sex life ...
  A: Hey, J. Your question is very important and therefore I wrote an article to respond to it. You can ...
Boyfriend's sexual past10/12/2007
  Q: I found out, inadvertently, from a friend, about my boyfriend's recent sexual past and his sex life ...
  A: J. Thanks for your question. First, tell me please - how old are you? How old is he? How is your ...
Jealous Girlfriend?10/11/2007
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We have a great relationship. The only issue ...
  A: Hey, Jay. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy can be a serious problem that can hurt a good ...
Boyfriend's past sexual partners10/10/2007
  Q: I have a major jealousy issue. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 months and we have ...
  A: Mary. As I point out in my audio program "20 Laws of Successful Relationships" it's very important ...
how to get over jealousy10/10/2007
  Q: So I hav been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months and I guess I have always been a jealous ...
  A: Hey, Josh. Thanks for your question. It's an important one and it lead me to write an article which ...
In love but not loved10/8/2007
  Q: I really do love my girlfriend of a year, but I'm constantly bothered by the fact her love for me is ...
  A: Hey, Shawn. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to know: how old are you, how ...
bachelor party..10/6/2007
  Q: I am having a problem trusting my boyfriend. We have been dating for 8 months now and live together. ...
  A: Erin. I do believe that you shouldn't make a big deal out of that one incident if everything else ...
JEALOUS10/5/2007
  Q: I am in love with a women who is a friend( for 2 years ), but she has a jealous bf she is going to ...
  A: Hey, Jack. If a woman is about to marry and she loves that other man, telling her how you feel ...
so jealous and lost10/4/2007
  Q: so, my on and off boyfriend of 7 years and i broke up a few months ago. and now he is dating a 18 ...
  A: Amy. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about your feelings. It's quite normal feeling bitter ...
jealous10/1/2007
  Q: I have been dating a guy for a year. We have been real serious and are seniors in hs. He always ...
  A: Hey, Sharri. Thanks for following up. With regard to this particular guy, the details make a ...
freinds9/30/2007
  Q: ok so i have this best friend and me and her do everything together. And as bad as it sounds, i like ...
  A: Nicole. The best way to handle your problem is to stop comparing yourself to others and to your ...
I am noticing a pattern here9/26/2007
  Q: Hey Arkady, thanks for taking time to read my problem. My fiancee Sarah and I have been together for ...
  A: Hey, Benjamin. Thanks for your question. It's a very important one. This situation grants you an ...
JEALOUSY9/25/2007
  Q: OK well i have a crush on this boy and he knows but this year one of my friend named Fatimah ...
  A: Amy. Thanks for your question. Please read my article on the blog here: ...
at my wits end9/24/2007
  Q: I'll try and keep this brief.I have met an outstanding and loving lady about 9 months ago and her ...
  A: Rich. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I have to ask you - why do you care so much ...
Jealousy9/18/2007
  Q: I am 36 year old I am married and I do have a jealousy issue. My husband isn't the type of guy to ...
  A: Hey, Patricia. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy can be a serious poison to any ...
Insecurity9/17/2007
  Q: Please help me I have fallen in love with the girl of my dreams but im ruining it with my insecurity ...
  A: Indeed, jealousy and insecurity can be quite serious problems. I would like for you to start our ...
Jelousy and cheating is It me or her9/14/2007
  Q: I get jealous if my girl friend even dances with another guy cause i think that means she doesn't ...
  A: Brad. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. Indeed, jealousy is a serious problem that ...
my ex9/14/2007
  Q: Alright, im a mess. i spent a year with my ex girlfriend (we were together till last month). My ...
  A: Hey, Chase. Thanks for your question. Before I go any further, I would like for you to go to my site ...
i want to find closeur9/13/2007
  Q: i am not over my ex i feel very unhappy and sad everything remindes me of her and i still want her ...
  A: Kevin. You don't need closure. You need to do two things: 1. Stop harboring hope and drowning ...
I let too much out the bag how do I fix this situation?9/13/2007
  Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year, I'm 24 and he's 26. What happens is that ...
  A: Jessica. Thanks for your question. I would like for you to watch a relevant video dating tip by me. ...
ex gf9/10/2007
  Q: ok well im 17 and my gf is 19 we were goin out for 3 months and we broke up after honesty had its ...
  A: Shane. You must move on. Dwelling on what happened is not going change that. The sooner you commit ...
Jealousy over Fiances ex wife9/9/2007
  Q: Hey!I recently found myself getting jealous and upset over a situation that occurred the other ...
  A: Melia. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to know what bothers you exactly ...
Jealousy9/5/2007
  Q: I have a jealousy problem with my boyfriend where I'm at his place and we're about to get intimate ...
  A: Carm. The key to resolving your issue is in STOPPING to idolize your relationship and believe / ...
My girlfriends away for 4 months and im really jelous9/4/2007
  Q: so I've been with my girl for 1 year and 5 months and she decided to go study abroad in Hong Kong. I ...
  A: Diego. The key to overcoming jealousy in this case is in REALIZING that your jealousy is pointless. ...
boyfriends strip club past9/3/2007
  Q: The other day I was at my bf's house and he was having a conversation with one of his friends about ...
  A: Hey, Jennifer. Thanks for your question. The key to overcoming your anger is in several important ...
jealous or disrespected?9/2/2007
  Q: My s/o of two years recently had a party. He invited his ex-girlfriend of 5 years. By the way, ...
  A: Hey, Colleen. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to know a few things: 1. ...
How to deal with jealousy9/1/2007
  Q: I am dating a guy (i am a bi) for about 1 month and 3 weeks, and it seems we are both on love and ...
  A: Hey, Ricky. I don't think you should be concerned. It sounds like the guy you are dating doesn't ...
girlfriend8/30/2007
  Q: My girlfriend caught me looking at another girl and is now really upset. She says she has seen me do ...
  A: Richard. If you really love her, please assure her that you like only her and that what you are ...
My Husbands co worker!8/29/2007
  Q: My husband and I have been married for 30 years.Now he is working with a woman in the office that he ...
  A: Jill. Thanks for your question. Could you please tell me what exactly he tells you about his new ...
How do I ask her to hang out the right way?8/28/2007
  Q: Just the other day I met this girl. She's 17, I'm 18. I was with my friend at the time and told her ...
  A: Michael. I see that everything goes well. Obviously, she likes you, obviously she is interested in ...
my husband's female co-worker and friend8/26/2007
  Q: Recently my husband started horseback riding and it was a female co-worker who invited him to try ...
  A: Tammy. From what you are describing, I don't sense any irrational suspicion or jealousy on your ...
new guy8/25/2007
  Q: i have just met this new guy, and he seems really nice, but hes older then i am, about 4 years ...
  A: Caitlin. If the opinion of his friends fully determines his own actions and he has no independent ...
new guy8/24/2007
  Q: i have just met this new guy, and he seems really nice, but hes older then i am, about 4 years ...
  A: Hey, Caitlin. I don't think you should be concerned about this. Your age difference is significant, ...
How do I make my ex-boyfriend jealous?8/22/2007
  Q: So I was with this guy for about four months and a few days ago he broke up with me on myspace ...
  A: Hey, Tristen. Thanks for your question. I must admit that I DO NOT believe in making someone ...
Im jealous8/21/2007
  Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months.And he calls other girls hot.It drives me ...
  A: Hey, Bethany. Those cases when he looks at other women are a perfect opportunity for your to show ...
reason for my jealousy8/20/2007
  Q: i feel jealous while people got great achievements. in my batch of java developers there were 28 ...
  A: Hey, Amit. Thanks for your question. Experiencing this kind of jealousy is a rather common problem. ...
a girl8/19/2007
  Q: I met this girl we hung out for this weekend i really got close to her and felt that felling that ...
  A: Hey, Tyler. First, before you do anything or assume anything, you should talk to her about it. Don't ...
Jealous of my friend8/9/2007
  Q: Hai.. I was a working professional for the past 4 years and recently got married and had to move ...
  A: Hima. I believe that the key to overcoming your problem is in STOPPING TO COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS ...
jealous8/7/2007
  Q: My girlfriend went away on a 3 day trip for work. One of her ex-boyfriend lives where she went to ...
  A: Hey, John. In the absence of more facts that would give you a reason to suspect that your gf wants ...
What to do???7/31/2007
  Q: Hey im dan, just like to thank you for taking the time to answer my question. Well im usually ...
  A: Hey, Dan. Thanks for your question. There is surely one thing you can do - being a little more ...
Im insecure about myself7/23/2007
  Q: i trust her but being away from her its really hard what do u suggest
  A: Hey, Valenting. Please realize that worry is pointless - it's doesn't do any good. Therefore, the ...
jealousy7/22/2007
  Q: i am well educated in the mental world, i use to be a expert on this site for 4yrs.. Here;s my ...
  A: Hey, Joey. Your case is not rare at all and it's quite a typical emotion for young people who just ...
He NEVER gets jealous!7/20/2007
  Q: I've been with my boyfriend 8 and a half months now and throughout our whole relationship he has ...
  A: Beth. I really think that you are one lucky woman who found a guy who is confident and secure enough ...
jealousy7/19/2007
  Q: why do i get jealous when my boyfriend looks at another woman when i am with him?
  A: Vee. It's nature for you to feel a bit of competitiveness with other women and feel uneasy about ...
Jealous of past ex!7/18/2007
  Q: I'm extremely jealous of my boyfriend's past exes. He hardly talks about them, mostly only if I ask ...
  A: Kristina. Thanks for your question. The key to overcoming your problem is in: 1. Realizing and ...
my boyfriends jealous7/15/2007
  Q: Hey, alright my boyfriend and I haven't really been together a REAL long time but he's so jealous ...
  A: Hey, Merry Ann. Indeed, jealousy is a serious problem that cuases many unnecessarily and hard ...
jealousy7/9/2007
  Q: if a girl breaks up with you and you guys decried to be friends with benefits and she still loves ...
  A: Hey, Don. It doesn't sound like you broke up. Actions speak louder than words, and your actions seem ...
The Jealousy Game7/9/2007
  Q: My boyfriend Dan and I have been together since February, and we care deeply for each other. We met ...
  A: Hey, Rachel. I don't think you have any reasons to be concerned. Remember, you simply can never give ...
a very sad storry7/7/2007
  Q: i went out with this guy for a week and then dumped him i told him it was coz my bro dint want me ...
  A: I don't think making someone jealous every works to anybody's advantage, so that would be a waste of ...
Jealous Sis7/6/2007
  Q: This is a little different but the same since my boyfriend is involved. I am 18 years old and just ...
  A: Jay. It's hard to believe but your sister's behavior is rather natural. The only great way to ...
jealousy7/5/2007
  Q: How can i keep from being jealous if my boyfriend spends as much time with his friends that are ...
  A: By remembering that the more freedom you give him, the more he will enjoy his life, and the more he ...
Jealous Ex7/2/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4.5 years and I found out he was cheating on me with a ...
  A: Nishie. This sounds like a classic harrassment issue. In your case, I would not hesitate to call a ...
I think he's married7/2/2007
  Q: i have been in an on again off again relationship with this guy for four years but for the last year ...
  A: Hey, Janay. Thanks for your question and let it be a good lesson for the future. If a guy hides some ...
Problem with my partner...6/27/2007
  Q: The long and the short of this is that I have been in a relationship for 6 years - first two were ...
  A: Hey, Jordan. First of all, unless you suspect that your boyfriend has homosexual tendencies or is ...
Jealousy with my Ex-Fiance6/25/2007
  Q: I was with my ex-fiance for almost 5 years (engaged for 2) and we have recently broken up (almost 2 ...
  A: Hey, Mac. Thanks for your kind words. I don't think this situation is worth any more attention and ...
Jealous Soldier6/25/2007
  Q: I am a Soldier currently serving in Afghanistan for a third tour. I am divorced and have since ...
  A: Hey, Jeff. Thanks for your question. I address this very important issue in my book - What You Wish ...
Im A Twat6/24/2007
  Q: Heya Ive really acted like a tool however so has my ex. ok so about a month and half ago i got ...
  A: Hey, Matthew. Judging the situation, the best thing you can do is MOVE ON AND RISE ABOVE IT. Stop ...
Ugh6/22/2007
  Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together over two years. Lately, he's not been saying "I ...
  A: Hey, Joanna. I would not make such a big deal out of it. Try to understand how difficult it must be ...
How to deal with my jealousy6/21/2007
  Q: My husband works in the field of education. Since it's women who mostly work in this field, he gets ...
  A: Hey, Zina. It's hard to ause your husband of doing something wrong or bad since his communiation ...
Afraid I will be jealous6/19/2007
  Q: I really want to have another woman join me and my fiancee sometime...Although we have never talked ...
  A: Samantha, clearly you are not ready for a three-some. And it's not a bad thing. It's just not in ...
confused6/19/2007
  Q: There is this 19 yr old girl that I like and only get to see her twice a week. I have only just ...
  A: Hey, Anthony. I want to look at the bigger picture here. and the big picture is this - you are ...
Question if girl is trying to make me jealous6/16/2007
  Q: To make a long story short, there is this girl that I like, and she "seemingly" really liked me as ...
  A: Hey, Zack. It's hard for me to tell what went though that girl's mind as she was hugging that other ...
make him want me6/8/2007
  Q: well im a 16 year old teenage girl and the person im trying to make jealouse is the first person i ...
  A: Hey, Alicia. I don't know why so many people believe that making someone jealous will increase their ...
jealous of other people.6/8/2007
  Q: ok, sometimes when i like a girl alot and she gets a boyfriend while she supposably liked me.. after ...
  A: Hey, Jeremy. Thanks for your question. Your jealousy stems from a simple inability to meet the girls ...
used...6/6/2007
  Q: okay, so my gf just broke up w/ me and she used to like this other guy alot and even cried when he ...
  A: Hey, Taylor. My study and observation clearly show that trying to make someone jealous is a waste of ...
jelousy6/2/2007
  Q: my exboyfriend always phone me and ask me where am i.he take my phone and insist that i give him my ...
  A: Hlamie. Jealousy and insecurity are some of the biggest killers of attraction and relationship, ...
How can I make my ex jealous?5/31/2007
  Q: This guy who I went out with for a short while, dumped me after only about 1 week, and I was only ...
  A: Hey, April. I don't know why so many people think that making someone jealous will awaken attraction ...
The other woman5/30/2007
  Q: My boyfriend and I recently got back together. During our break he met a girl at a wedding. They ...
  A: Hey, Katie. If all they want is to be friends, there is no reason for your to be concerned. In fact, ...
Am I just being jealous or should I have something to worry about?5/22/2007
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now, and we're both in the 11th grade. ...
  A: Hey, Lance. I normally discourage people from being jealous when that jealousy is irrational. ...
***** PLEASE HELP *****5/20/2007
  Q: i love my gf deeply but sometimes i get so jealous and i feel like shit...she loves me but has told ...
  A: Hey, D. Thanks for your question. In my book "What You Wish You knew about Men" I discuss jealousy ...
My Relationship5/17/2007
  Q: Well I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. I love him so much and according to him he feels the same way, ...
  A: Hey, Ronice. Indeed, jealousy and insecurity are very destructive of relationships and it's ...
Dont know what to think.5/17/2007
  Q: I've been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months now, I'm no longer in school, but she is. But ...
  A: Hey, JJ. I don't think that your feelings are irrational. Dinner and a movie is not a big deal and ...
Redundant5/15/2007
  Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I m very invested in the relationship and ...
  A: Hey, Vannessa. I wish I could speak with your boyfriend and explain something very important to him: ...
girlfriend/jealousy/other guys5/13/2007
  Q: My girlfriend and I are at our respective homes for the summer and live 4 hours from each other. We ...
  A: Hey, Phil. Thanks for your question. It's an important one and I want you to read carefully: You ...
is he trying to make me jealous? how do i make him jealous?5/13/2007
  Q: well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month. I fell he isn't really into me but he's ...
  A: Hey, Lacey. There is no way for me to know why your boyfriend does what he does exactly, but it ...
Jealousy5/12/2007
  Q: I am a very jealous person, this stems from past experiences involving my parents and my past ...
  A: Sir. As an "Epucirian," first I would like to refer you to the philosophy of your admired ...
wanting my boyfriend back5/11/2007
  Q: hey well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and i know he still has feelings for me.we ...
  A: Ok, you just tell him that. You tell him that you have no intention of pursuing him romantically, ...
wanting my boyfriend back5/10/2007
  Q: hey well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and i know he still has feelings for me.we ...
  A: Hey, Maya. I see nothing wrong with being friends. I don't think it's going to work now if either of ...
Jealous of gynaecologist5/9/2007
  Q: There is only one area of our relationship that makes me concerned...I feel jealous and almost ...
  A: Rob. Thanks for your question. Indeed, your concern isn't rational or well foudned. The doctor is a ...
wanting my boyfriend back5/9/2007
  Q: hey well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and i know he still has feelings for me.we ...
  A: Maya. Sounds like a classic case of hypersensitivity, lack of experience and emotional immaturity on ...
How to make him jealous5/8/2007
  Q: I known one of my guy friends for awhile now. His 'friends' recently emailed me saying that he hated ...
  A: Eliza. The best way to get back at him is by RISING above all this, disregarding it, and focusing ...
Jealous in result of insecurities.5/8/2007
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, we have known eachother for a year and he is just an all ...
  A: Hey, Kat. Indeed, jealousy and insecurity are annoying and destructive qualities. In my book "What ...
Older men5/7/2007
  Q: i recently went to church and i met this guy who's 34 yrs old. he's like, 16 yrs older than me. he's ...
  A: Hey, Kate. Thanks for your question. I am not sure if it would be very "ethical" of me to advise you ...
wanting my boyfriend back5/7/2007
  Q: hey well me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and i know he still has feelings for me.we ...
  A: Hey, Maya. Thanks for your question. It sounds like your boyfriend is somewhat inexperienced and ...
boyfriend goin to prom with another girl5/5/2007
  Q: Ok well my boyfriend is going to prom tonight with this other girl who invited him. She is a senior ...
  A: Hey, Brittany. I suggest that you don't worry about this one evening that your bf spends with his ...
is is really jealousy. Or is it just me5/5/2007
  Q: Ok. I have a friend named Shianne and I have known here since 2nd grade and I'm in 9th now. But we ...
  A: Meghan. Thanks for your question, and I am sorry about your situation. In this case, the best way ...
Time for a little jealousy, perhaps?5/4/2007
  Q: ***Okay I sent you a question already & it didn't really make sence because I said the guy wasn't ...
  A: Hey, Adrienna. Thanks for your question. I must admit that I don't believe in making someone ...
urgent advice needed!5/3/2007
  Q: i have split up with my ex several times and every time he finds a new partner i get jelous and get ...
  A: Leanne. Thanks for your question. At this point, I don't think you should or you can be friends. You ...
love5/1/2007
  Q: my x-girlfriend has a new boyfriend and it hurts, how should i get back at her.
  A: Hey, Larry. I don't think you should. I know it hurts and I know it's easier said than done, but you ...
other guys hanging out with my girlfriend5/1/2007
  Q: ok, so me and my gf have been going out for 8 months...but recently, there's always this guy that's ...
  A: I'm sorry to say it, Jon. But she has a point. I urge you to read a free chapter from my book which ...
I'm a jealous person and I want to stop it.....4/30/2007
  Q: First of all am I being too jealous? I have a boyfriend who I love alot and at this point would like ...
  A: Hey, Brenda. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is an important emotion to get rid of ...
IDK If It's Me Being Jealous Or Is It Actually A Problem, What Do I Do???? *INSTANT HELP*4/29/2007
  Q: Ok I'm 16 and my boyfriend's 16 he's older than me by 4 months and a couple of days... But We've ...
  A: Hey, Lady Jay. Thanks for your question. What's is much more important is not that girl's words or ...
Jelousy4/28/2007
  Q: There is this guy that i like. And my friend thinks that he likes me back cause he kinda flirts with ...
  A: Ok. So... what happened then? How did it end? The reason I was suggesting what I was suggesting ...
can i trust my boyfriend4/28/2007
  Q: lately he added more photographs (people can comment on them) of himself that show his body and also ...
  A: Stephanie, I am all about abandoning jealousy and not being insecure or watching your partner's ...
other guys hanging out with my girlfriend4/27/2007
  Q: ok, so me and my gf have been going out for 8 months...but recently, there's always this guy that's ...
  A: Hey, Jon. Thanks for your question. The best thing you can do is be LAID BACK about it. Yes, don't ...
Jelousy4/26/2007
  Q: There is this guy that i like. And my friend thinks that he likes me back cause he kinda flirts with ...
  A: Come up and say this: "Hey, I know this cool cafe near this park. They serve really great coffee. ...
Jelousy4/25/2007
  Q: There is this guy that i like. And my friend thinks that he likes me back cause he kinda flirts with ...
  A: You will only be humiliated if you perceive your interest as a bad thing. On the other hand, if you ...
I'm jealous when i lose attention from my best friend4/24/2007
  Q: i have a few questions. I have a best freind whose a girl and a long time friend who lives about an ...
  A: Joey. Before I can answer your question, you have to answer one question, that only you can answer - ...
insecurities4/23/2007
  Q: When one is jealous or insecure. What may be the causes of this. My thought, is that it's not really ...
  A: Hey, Ramon. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. I posted for a free preview a section ...
Pictures of Ex's??4/18/2007
  Q: My fiancee of almost 10 months forgot her wallet one day. So she called me and asked if i would put ...
  A: Hey, Ben. Thanks for your question. I don't think there is a better way to find the asnwer as to why ...
Help4/15/2007
  Q: I was wondering where to go for help with my jealousy issues? I have been in a great relationship ...
  A: Hey, Pete. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is a destructive and unattractive quality. I ...
Boyfriend cannot overcome his jealousy4/13/2007
  Q: My name is Dawn and I love almost everything about the realationship that I am in. The only problem ...
  A: Hey, Dawn. Thanks for your question. Indeed jealousy is destructive and very unattractive quality. I ...
I keep getting jelous4/12/2007
  Q: i keep getting jelous of the girls that talk to my bf. there is one in particular that really likes ...
  A: K. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is a very destructive and unattractive quality in a ...
ex-boyfriend..best friend..dont know how to deal with..HELP4/9/2007
  Q: okay so let me start off with this..soo my ex boyfriend...who i fell for hard..my first for ...
  A: Hey, Brooke. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about your situation. Indeed, first breaks up ...
jealous.."friend"4/5/2007
  Q: i just got out of the relationship from HELL. it wasn't bad all the way through, but it ended on a ...
  A: Hey, Molly. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is one of the most unattractive and ...
Jealously4/4/2007
  Q: Arkady Itkin, and I suffer from jealousy really bad. Im only 18 yrs. old, but me and my girlfriend ...
  A: Awlo. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is a very destructive quality and liberating ...
oh man, im feelin the jealousy4/3/2007
  Q: hey im Will. I am 15 and i really like this girl (also 15). We talk to eachother, she laughs when i ...
  A: Hey, Will. Thanks for your question. Indeed, jealousy is a strong and destructive emotion. The ...
very long question prepare yourself thanks =)4/1/2007
  Q: my name is charlene (19yrs), i have been with my bf steve(20yrs) for almost 3years now. (it hasnt ...
  A: Charlene. Indeed, too much porn is detrimental to his drive toward the real thing - you. However, ...
triangle love3/31/2007
  Q: We were good friend we came close and she became my girlfriend, she proposed me for marriage , and ...
  A: Hey, Arman. I am not sure I understand the situation. Please descrive it more clearly. I can't quite ...
why people trying to defame my character3/29/2007
  Q: hey,give me some ways to ignore all this negativity towards me i'm a gorgeous guy i heard from many ...
  A: Hey, Andre. Thanks for your question. What an interesting problem you got there - assuming that it ...
Jealousy is ruining my relationship!!3/29/2007
  Q: I met my current boyfriend around 5 months ago and he was the most loving guy that you could ever ...
  A: Hey, Ally. Thanks for your question. Indeed, trying to talk your partner into doing something like ...
Please help3/28/2007
  Q: im at tafe and in my classes there is this girl kat who is very very good friends with Cindy also in ...
  A: Katheryn. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to understand one thing - why is ...
I can't stand my boyfriends sexual past...3/25/2007
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and have had this problem the whole time, he's ...
  A: Hey, Catherine. Thanks for your question. Here is one great way to get over this problem: 1. Take ...
Boyfriend3/24/2007
  Q: My name is Lexi and i was going out with a boy named Corey. He broke up with me because i couldn't ...
  A: My pleasure Lexi. Thanks for your kind words. As a woman who enjoys learning I believe you are one ...
Boyfriend3/23/2007
  Q: My name is Lexi and i was going out with a boy named Corey. He broke up with me because i couldn't ...
  A: Lexi. By the way, I am not Shawn :). My name is Arkady, but ... doesn't matter. Lexi, I believe ...
Boyfriend3/23/2007
  Q: My name is Lexi and i was going out with a boy named Corey. He broke up with me because i couldn't ...
  A: Honestly, I think it's beyound or... shall I say beneath stupid. It's typical of very, very young ...
Boyfriend3/23/2007
  Q: My name is Lexi and i was going out with a boy named Corey. He broke up with me because i couldn't ...
  A: Hey, Lexi. As I said earlier, making someone jealous will not make you feel better. Instead, you ...
Boyfriend3/22/2007
  Q: My name is Lexi and i was going out with a boy named Corey. He broke up with me because i couldn't ...
  A: Lexi. The best way to be a winner in your situation is to RISE ABOVE IT. Making a guy jelous is not ...
Jealous Friend3/22/2007
  Q: Me and my boyfriend have been best friends since I came to Germany (we are both in the Army) and he ...
  A: Hey, Jolene. Thanks for your question. I hope I understand you correctly. I completely support ...
I cant stop being jelous and its tearing me apart3/22/2007
  Q: I met this guy through a school thing and we became mates, but he lives down south and me, up north ...
  A: Christina. Thanks for your question. In your situation, the best strategy is letting it / him go. ...
I DON'T WANT TO BE JEALOUS Part II!!!!!3/22/2007
  Q: I wanted to first thank you for answering my first question. What you wrote, coming from someone of ...
  A: Ben. That's a great idea. Don't let this stuff accumulate in you. Talk about it and don't be ...
I DON'T WANT TO BE JEALOUS!!!!!3/21/2007
  Q: Okay, I've been dating my fiancee for about 9 months. I am 27 and she is 20. She is a very flirty ...
  A: Hey, Ben. Thanks for your question. I believe that jealousy is one of the most destructive and ...
My girlfreind is always hanging out with other guys!!3/20/2007
  Q: Well im 15 and me and my girlfreind have been going out for half a year. About a month ago she went ...
  A: Hey, Josh. Thanks for your question. If you believe you can trust the girl, then you have all the ...
why is he so jealous3/20/2007
  Q: Whenever or wherever I'm with my boyfriend hes so overbearring with the whole "u cheated on me, did ...
  A: Brittany. Thanks for your question. It's an important one, and I wish your boyfriend contacted me ...
jealousy3/16/2007
  Q: why does he always stare at other women?
  A: Hey, Samantha. It's quite normal for a guy to stare at women! Yes, it's nothing personal and all ...
jelous of baby mama'3/10/2007
  Q: my question comes from feeling lost...i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4yrs though he has an ...
  A: Ms. E. Thanks for your question. I am glad you recognize that you have a problem with jealousy ...
Myspace and snooping3/7/2007
  Q: OK let me start by saying that i am 20 and my GF is 34. We have been together about a year. We live ...
  A: Hey, Adam. Thanks for your question. My answer is two-fold. First, it's not wrong to bring things ...
help3/6/2007
  Q: i found text messages on boyfriens phone, he gave me an ok explanation,also told him i found him ...
  A: Clo. Thanks for your question. I don't know what the text message that you found included so I can't ...
ex's3/4/2007
  Q: So I ended up talking to him...not in the way I wanted to unfortunately. Remember how I said I ...
  A: Kristen. As I am thinking about your situation, I must say again that my biggest issue is the fact ...
ex's3/2/2007
  Q: I'm actually 23 and he is 36. It is the first older guy I have ever dated, so I'm guessing the age ...
  A: Kristen. Thanks for elaborating. Normally, I am a big opponent of jealousy and convince people to ...
ex's3/1/2007
  Q: I have been dating a guy for a while now, but he has a close relationship with an ex. She is ...
  A: Kristen. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, please describe in greater detail the ...
Overposessive girlfriend3/1/2007
  Q: Let me first start off by saying that I am 24, a college graduate, and have a full time job. My ...
  A: Hey, Aaron. Thanks for your question. It's such an important one. Jealousy and possessiveness are ...
LINDSEY3/1/2007
  Q: I BROKE UP WITH MY GIRL DUE TO SOME MAJOR ISSUES NOT WITH US BUT WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND A GUY ...
  A: Hey, MIke. Thanks for your question. Normally, I would say that the best way to handle your ...
im jealous does he even want me?2/24/2007
  Q: I've had an online relationship for over a year. we've met in person twice now. I was not ever ...
  A: Gem. Thanks for your question. First, I am curious - why it took a whole year for you guys to meet ...
how to make an older guy like me2/22/2007
  Q: Ok, i have this guy i REALLY like, but hes alot older. 5 years or so. We talk and joke around alot ...
  A: Ashleigh. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to know a few more details: 1. ...
Baby mama drama2/21/2007
  Q: I have been seeing someone for about four months now. From day one I knew he was involved with ...
  A: Hey Amanda, thanks for your question. I am glad to see that you have already made the first step ...
Ye.. Jealous2/18/2007
  Q: Im Alex Im 14 Im gonna start off by explaining how long ive known her etc.. me and my girlfriend ...
  A: Hey, Alex. Thanks for your question. And... you are already on the road toward solving your problem ...
help me2/17/2007
  Q: well i always think my bf is flirting but when i talk to him he says hes not how come im always ...
  A: Hey, Kelsey. Thanks for your question. It's good that you are aware of your obstacle. Jealousy has a ...
jealousy2/16/2007
  Q: How to deal with Jealousy? I have been dating this guy for about a year now and when i first met ...
  A: Hey, Chasity. Obviously, your guy is the one who needs help. Jealousy is a very strong and a very ...
love amd jealousy2/13/2007
  Q: i have been dating my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. (We started dating when i was a junior in ...
  A: Brit. Thanks for your question. Your concern is not really jealousy but legitimate suspicion that ...
i need help..:(2/12/2007
  Q: my ex-boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks 3 days ago. i cannot get over him, because i loved him with ...
  A: Hey, Veronika. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about what happened. First, making someone ...
love and jealously2/11/2007
  Q: Ok well Im basicaly madly in love with my bestfriend and at one point i know she felt the same way ...
  A: Hey, Joey. Before I can answer this question, I need to know some more detail: 1. How old are you ...
Envious2/8/2007
  Q: Right where to begin, a few months ago (September) I met this group of lads. Well they are all ...
  A: How to get over this: TIME, TIME, TIME. You are a sensitive lady and he was your first love. First ...
Envious2/6/2007
  Q: Right where to begin, a few months ago (September) I met this group of lads. Well they are all ...
  A: Hey, Gisele. Thanks for your question. Trying to make someone jealous is usually a waste of time. It ...
Jealousy2/2/2007
  Q: Well, I am in 8th grade and I at lunch I sit with my best friend. About 6 boys sit with us. But she ...
  A: Jordan. Thanks for your question. Surely, looks have something to do with any girl's popularity. ...
I think I need help???1/30/2007
  Q: hey this is megan again well no these boy are not friends because they don't know each other but i ...
  A: Hey, Megan. The best way to ask a guy out is BY NOT ASKING HIM OUT. Instead, suggest an activity in ...
i need help! i'm a loner!1/26/2007
  Q: alright i really like these two boy and one is a 9th grader and one is a 7th grader and he is in my ...
  A: Hey, Megan. Thanks for your question. Are these guys friends with each other? If not - do you want ...
jealousy1/26/2007
  Q: My twenty nine year old girlfriend who I have been with for threee years has two kids with two ...
  A: Hey, John. Thanks for your question, and I am sorry about your situation. Before I can answer this ...
Past issues1/25/2007
  Q: My wife and I have been married for about a year now, very happily, I might add. We are both ...
  A: Hey, Sean. Thanks for your question. The right way to overcome your problem (I wouldn't call it ...
Strippers!1/25/2007
  Q: I have a unique problem. My boyfriend and I have been together two years. He is 27 and I am 25. Last ...
  A: Hey, Stephanie. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about the fighting. First, you do ...
I like him, but he might like another girl?1/22/2007
  Q: I'm a freshman in college, and I like this sophomore boy. Around the opposite sex, I tend to get shy ...
  A: Hey, Romania. Thanks for your questions. I really do believe that your worries and concerns are ...
how to make him(them) jealous1/21/2007
  Q: hey, im 16, a junior in high school. so i have a question on making two different guys jealous. ...
  A: Allie. Thanks for your questions. First, making someone jealous is NEVER a good idea. It will not ...
jealousy1/20/2007
  Q: how do i get rid of this terrible feeling. i can't believe that i am this jealous. i am a widow of ...
  A: Angie. Thanks for your question. That's a tough one. I am trying to think of the possible reasons ...
how to1/20/2007
  Q: i like ur idea .help me in that subjectshe's bine not texting me like always sending me i love u ...
  A: Ok. First you need to answer the above questions to yourself and let me know if you changed in your ...
jealousy1/20/2007
  Q: because i want to test him to see how much he really cares about me and i want to do that by making ...
  A: That's not a very reliable way to test someone's feelings for you. Jealousy does not necessarily ...
how to1/19/2007
  Q: she's bine not texting me like always sending me i love u and etc. how can i get her to love me ...
  A: Hey, Eric. The worst way to fix this situation is by convincing your fiance that she should like ...
boyfriend problems.1/19/2007
  Q: well i have been with 4 other guys and he is just really speaical to me and treats me well. not like ...
  A: Skylar. From little that I know about your situation, you shouldn't be concerned. Guys express their ...
how to1/18/2007
  Q: she usted to be loveable.and now its lil bit.and now she wanna change the wedding date .. i need ...
  A: What do you mean, Eric. How is she not lovable now? I need more detail - do you have a problem with ...
how to make my fiance jealous1/16/2007
  Q: my question is .i have like 2 years with my girl fiance..and i usted to not be the only one with ...
  A: Eric. Thanks for your question. I am afraid I do not understand. I understand that your fiance is ...
jealousy1/16/2007
  Q: The text above is a follow-up to ... -----Question----- I am 18 years old and I have been with my ...
  A: Hey, Rachel. I understand. To make this much better for yourself and to eliminate the feeling of ...
jealousy1/16/2007
  Q: I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. For the first year and a ...
  A: I see, Rachel. Normally I would suggest to a girl in your situation to realize that jealousy is a ...
Question about jealousy1/16/2007
  Q: I was dumped a couple of months ago by my girlfriend and she now has a new man. I'm extremely ...
  A: Hey, Simon. Thanks for your question. Making someone jealous is almost never a good idea. Usually, ...
Dealing with Jealously1/16/2007
  Q: My girlfriend & i have been dating for months now, & she is the best thing that has ever happened to ...
  A: Hey, Danny. Thanks for your question. First, you must realize that the only thing that keeps your ...
hOOooOw!!!!!!????!!!1/14/2007
  Q: I am jelous with the ex-girlfriend of my boyfriend and i really hate it when i see them talking or ...
  A: Sha-vee! Thanks for your question. The best way to handle this situation is RISE ABOVE IT. So what ...
jelous of boyfs ex1/12/2007
  Q: OK I know this seems reali stupid and even to me I ask myself,,why am I jelous?? but its stil eating ...
  A: Rikku. Thanks for your question. I amdire your perceptiveness and ability to reflect on yourself. ...
best friend likes my crush1/12/2007
  Q: My best friend and I are both very attractive and in out early thirties. She asked me to go to see ...
  A: Hey, Sita. Thanks for your question. Yes, I have observed this phenomenon among some women. To ...
HOW TO MAKE HER JEALOUS1/12/2007
  Q: I HAVE A FRIEND THAT FLIRTS WITH THE ONE THAT I LIKE AND I DONT LIKE THAT . I TELL HER HOW I FEEL ...
  A: Nichole. The best way to handle this situation is ... RISE ABOVE IT! Making someone jealousy never ...
Baby1/11/2007
  Q: Why do you think a girl says that she wants to have a baby? Do you think is love? or something else. ...
  A: Hey, Luis. It's perfectly normal for a girl to be eager to have a baby. This shows her very serious ...
Baby1/11/2007
  Q: Why do you think a girl says that she wants to have a baby? Do you think is love? or something else.
  A: Hey, Luis. This will depend on many circumstances? Who is this girl to you? Are you in a ...
Love at first sight and shyness1/11/2007
  Q: I've never believe on love at first sight but this time I felt different when I saw her. When I saw ...
  A: Hey, Luis. Thanks for your question. With regard to love at first site - obviosly everybody has ...
Jealous1/10/2007
  Q: Why Do I feel nervous when my girl is out from her house or she is hanging around with her friends? ...
  A: Hey, Luis. Thanks for your question. Please understand that whether you trust a girl or not HAS ...
FRUSTRATION!1/9/2007
  Q: ok so the other night my boyfriend and i were talking and he told me hes been feeling a little ...
  A: JB. Thanks for your question. Your jealousy probably stems from your subconcsious comparison of ...
Jealousy1/8/2007
  Q: My boyfriend just recently moved away to college and ive been having trouble trusting him. One day, ...
  A: Hey, Ashley. Thanks for your question. You must understand that your jealousy and lack of trust are ...
help1/8/2007
  Q: my boyfriend and i just turned 6 months today. when we started out i never had any problems dealing ...
  A: Akasha. Thanks for your question. You must understand one thing - COMPARING YOURSELF IS POINTLESS ...
what can i do.1/8/2007
  Q: oh boy. where to begin. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a year and a few months and i ended ...
  A: Your jealousy stems from your not being used and not feeling comfortable with seeing other people ...
stripclubs1/8/2007
  Q: I have insecurities. I am beautiful in my eyes but flawed to the fullest. He is a man's man that ...
  A: Sylvia. Thanks for your question, and I understand the problem. The problem is that you compare ...
Love1/8/2007
  Q: well she never liked him before i like she only liked girl until i liked himMy feirnd is dating the ...
  A: Cat. I suggest that unless the guy wants to be with you and likes you, you let her do as she wishes ...
Jelousy of naked actresses.1/7/2007
  Q: I am a 20 year old woman, happily engaged but i have a jealousy problem. My fiance loves teen comedy ...
  A: Hey, Sophie. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. Yes, it's unreasonable of you to ask ...
is this girl trying to make me jealous?1/5/2007
  Q: i like this girl in school, and during gym, whenever we take a break she walks over to this boy and ...
  A: Han. Thanks for your question. It's quite possible that this is her way to show you that she likes ...
Love1/5/2007
  Q: My feirnd is dating the guy i like because i like him. What do I do
  A: Cat. Thanks for your question, and I am sorry to hear about your friend's seemingly competitive ...
Husband deployed and jealous over his friend1/5/2007
  Q: My husband is currently deployed and has been for four months. We met about 6 months ago and had a ...
  A: Hey, Becky. Thanks for your question. I wish your husband contacted me because he is the one who ...
How can I get my ex back??1/5/2007
  Q: wow here it goes. My ex left me. He didn't say why and won't talk about it. He's 25 and is acting so ...
  A: Jaclyn. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about what happened. The best thing to do in this ...
relationship advise1/5/2007
  Q: so can you tell me maby some tips on how to go on and ect??i really need some advice on how to get ...
  A: Well, for once, Alicia - imagine if a guy who you don't want to talk to called you every five hours? ...
relationship advise1/5/2007
  Q: so can you tell me maby some tips on how to go on and ect??
  A: Alicia. And if you would like to be notified when my dating guide for women becomes available at ...
Jeolousy1/4/2007
  Q: My boyfriend of about 5 months recently went to the stripclubs and i didn't care until i found out ...
  A: Hey, Sara. Thanks for your question. Yes, if that's the only thing he did that made you worry. You ...
pathological jealousy1/4/2007
  Q: My name is Eli, im 24, my ex boyfriend is 22. Im saying ex, because we have broken up few months ...
  A: Hey, Eli. Thanks for your question. I wish your guy wrote to me because he is the one who needs ...
Ex-girlfriend...(missed something)1/4/2007
  Q: I'm sorry, but there were two things I don't think I mentioned in the question I just sent you. I'm ...
  A: Hey, Harmony. Thanks for your question and clarification. Jealousy is an emotion and getting rid of ...
Jeolous over a girl1/4/2007
  Q: Wel first I went out with a guy named Dylan Harlan and then he cheated on me with a girl named ...
  A: Hey, Augustina. Thanks for your question, and I am sorry about what happened. Your best revenge here ...
girlfriends past1/3/2007
  Q: my Girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months and at the start of our relationship it ...
  A: Hey, James. Thanks for your question. The best thing to do is first NOT TO TAKE IT PERSONALLY AND ...
need help1/3/2007
  Q: How to get ride of jealousy? because my boyfriend's family spend too much time with another girl's ...
  A: Hey, Jasmine. I thought I would respond to your question with a passage from my soon to be published ...
relationship advise1/3/2007
  Q: well let me see here,i am a american female and my boyfriend of almost a year is a mexican male..i ...
  A: Hey, Alicia. Thanks for your question. Obviously you have some strong feelings for the guy if you ...
boyfriend's ex-girlfriend1/3/2007
  Q: My fiance Drew and I are planning on getting married this summer. The problem is, I have this ...
  A: Hey, Sara. Thanks for your question and congratulations. Yes, women tend to compare themselves ...
Jealousy Of Past Event1/2/2007
  Q: My girlfriend and I have gone round and round about a issue that happen about 5 months ago. I had ...
  A: Hey, Jeff. Thanks for your question. It sounds like you forgave one event but didn't manage to ...
pathological jealousy1/2/2007
  Q: My name is Eli, im 24, my ex boyfriend is 22. Im saying ex, because we have broken up few months ...
  A: Eli. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about the situation. Your, or to be more precise - your ...
jealousy problems1/1/2007
  Q: ok, i've been dating this girl for about 2yrs now and at first i used to be the ok with everything ...
  A: Hey, Jose. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. To answer this, I have included a ...
my girlfirend and i1/1/2007
  Q: i mean she doesnt even tell her own family that she loves them. The thing is that i gat mad at her ...
  A: Hey, David. Thanks for following up. Your arguments are typical of the couples of your age and ...
How do I make things right with my best friend?1/1/2007
  Q: Just one more question though. Do i tell him how I am feeling or keep it to myself and remain ...
  A: My pleasure, Neeta. I see nothing wrong with letting him know how you feel if you do it right. If ...
How do I make things right with my best friend?1/1/2007
  Q: I am a 33yr. old female and my best friend is a 30 yr. old male. He and I have been confiding ...
  A: Hey, Neeta. Thanks for your question. I am glad you are not trying to sabotage their relatioship ...
Jealous for my boyfreinds attention.12/31/2006
  Q: Alright, my boyfriend and I are in a fight right now over New Years Eve.This is our first one ...
  A: Hey, Taylor. Thanks for your question. Your dissatisfaction with what the man does is not really ...
He lied to me !!!!!12/31/2006
  Q: ok i liked this boy and he said " he liked me to but told other people that he doesn't and hangs out ...
  A: Hey, Crystal. Thanks for writing. In order to answer, however, I need more details: 1. How old are ...
Very Jealous12/31/2006
  Q: I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years for very stupid reasons and I really want her back ...
  A: Hey, Justin. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. To answer this, I have included a ...
PLeaz help12/30/2006
  Q: Hey Arkady Itkin, I went out with this girl and we broke up three times. Now shes going out with ...
  A: Hey, Jason. Thanks for your question. One, single best thing you can do in this situation is this: ...
How do I stop feeling jealous12/30/2006
  Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months now. I'm 25 he's 41. I'm a happy outgoing person. And ...
  A: Hey, Holly. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. I believe that I have answered this ...
jealous....12/30/2006
  Q: I live with my boyfriend already 6 months i know him for 7, he flirts a lot in the computer with ...
  A: Hey, Heidi. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. And you have made the first move toward ...
Make him Jealous12/30/2006
  Q: Ok, so there is this boy that i was dating, but we recently broke up. I still want him to like me ...
  A: Hey, Katie. Thanks for your question. My study shows that there is no better revenge that ...
my girlfirend and i12/30/2006
  Q: i mean she doesnt even tell her own family that she loves them. The thing is that i gat mad at her ...
  A: Hey, David. Thanks for your question. It's an important one. Before I can answer it fully, tell ...
I need advice12/29/2006
  Q: If a guy with whom you are dating.. Does not take u out... Does not call u.. But, texts you ...
  A: Hey, Karen. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to clarify a few things: 1. ...
I wanna make him regret everything did to me12/29/2006
  Q: I starting dating this guy that goes to the same bar as me so i see him alot.We broke a few days ago ...
  A: Jen. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about what happened. In this case, the best ...
jealousy12/28/2006
  Q: ok i have a problem....my life is great im usually a happy go lucky person and i never ever get ...
  A: Hey, Seisha. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I need to clarify a few things- the ...
?12/21/2006
  Q: I have an online relationship. We have been talking for a year. We havent met yet. I called him ...
  A: Jane. Thanks for your question. Please don't consider me cruel, but when I read that you have not ...
Jealousy12/21/2006
  Q: Hey, this has been my biggest issue so far in my relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been ...
  A: Hey, George. Thanks for your question. I understand your concern. I believe that you need to do one ...
about friends12/20/2006
  Q: my best friend found a new friend and does not ever talk to me any more how can i get her back
  A: Jenna. And thanks for your question. In order to answer it, I need to find out a few things from ...
my girlfriend and her ex12/16/2006
  Q: OK well I've been going out with my girlfriend for 2 months now, it seems partially good but i ...
  A: Nik. Thanks for your question. First, congratulations on quitting pot. And screw the friends if all ...
what to do12/14/2006
  Q: so me and my ex boyfriend broke up not too long ago i've tryed to move on and just try to forget but ...
  A: Nicole. I believe this is the time to move on and exercise strength of your character and spirit and ...
jeolousy12/12/2006
  Q: How do I deal with a girl that likes the same boy as me? She also likes him too. So how do I stop ...
  A: Hey, Summer. Thanks for your question. The best way to deal with this situation is this: RISE ...
jealousy12/11/2006
  Q: Well my boyfriend brings up alot of my past and gets jealous of all the past relasionships iv ...
  A: Mercedes. Thanks for your question. I wish your boyfriend has contacted me instead of you. He is the ...
Over-the caring maybe?12/10/2006
  Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 11 months now. Things could never be better. But we have had ...
  A: Hey, Austin. Thanks for your question. I believe you have already made the first step toward solving ...
Jealousy12/8/2006
  Q: Ive been going out with my girlfriend for roughly 2 and a half years, probably a little longer(met ...
  A: Hey, John. Thanks for your question. My answer is simple and should be very effective to your ...
why?12/7/2006
  Q: im still with him because when i was into alot of drugs,alcohol and just plain suicidal. When i met ...
  A: I understand, Kaci. And I am sorry. I know you didn't want me to reply, but I just want you to ...
We're both jealous12/6/2006
  Q: Okay, he already knows that I like him, so I should try and flirt with him?Okay me and my friend are ...
  A: Yes, abslutely. Wait no longer, but make you move in your feminine subtle ways. If he is interested, ...
We're both jealous12/6/2006
  Q: Okay me and my friend are jealous of my best friend. Me and my friend both like the smae guy, but ...
  A: Hey, Mallory. Thanks for your question. I believe that if you both like the same guy let HIM decide ...
Jealousy12/6/2006
  Q: Okay, I like this guy and awhile ago he found out I liked him but he liked my best friend and she ...
  A: Jordan. Thanks for your question. And I have one good answer for you: The best way for you to win ...
why?12/6/2006
  Q: okay we have been renting a room with some of my mothers friends and we have been together for about ...
  A: Kaci. As I read your story with wonder and great sympathy for you, I couldn't help but ask one ...
why?12/5/2006
  Q: okay me and Michael have been together for over a year now and he has some issues going on right now ...
  A: Hey, Kaci. Thanks for your question. To be able to answer it, I need to know more detail about your ...
Help12/4/2006
  Q: Arkady, That's a pretty name. Anyways I have a problem, see my friend Cyndi is very skinny and ...
  A: Jess. Thank for the kind words ;). Yes, it does happen that guys ignore one girl for her better ...
Girlfriend Befriends my EX12/4/2006
  Q: Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 months. It has been very good so far. Lately, ...
  A: Hey, Darren. Thanks for your question. I am glad to see that you have made the first important step ...
My jealousy is a little excessive12/3/2006
  Q: Okay, so i started dating this girl about 2 months ago. just before we started dating, she attempted ...
  A: Decker. Thanks for your question. Your feelings are typical of a man with little experience with ...
retarted girls12/2/2006
  Q: ok I've got these girls in my class and i used to go out Hey, Ryan. Thanks for your question. I am ...
  A: Hey, Ryan. These problems and silly behavior is typical for the people and girls of your age. There ...
I want my ex back12/1/2006
  Q: so my ex-boyfriend were going out for about a year and a half. we would fight all the time and his ...
  A: Jessica. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about your situation. Everything about the ...
retarted girls11/30/2006
  Q: ok I've got these girls in my class and i used to go out with their 'leader'.But now they start ...
  A: Hey, Ryan. Thanks for your question. I am not sure I understand: 1. What do you mean by going out ...
i want him to be jealous11/27/2006
  Q: He is 35 and I am 27, we met at work, he no longer works here but he still comes by he brought me a ...
  A: Thansk for following up, Jan. I must say that I don't think that making a man jealous, especially ...
Jealousy11/27/2006
  Q: I really need help making a guy jealous. I know making a guy jealous is not really a good way to ...
  A: Victoria. I am sorry about what happened to you. And I wish to assure you that spending your energy ...
how do I make my man jealous11/24/2006
  Q: I have a boyfriend I have 1 kid with him he has two sons from two different weman who seem to want ...
  A: Emily. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about the situation that you are in. Here is my ...
I am curious11/24/2006
  Q: -I have not seen him about 2 weeks and he always calls me but to me I think that he using me for ...
  A: Did you try calling him and finding out why he hasn't come over in two weeks? Is he still calling ...
jealousy11/23/2006
  Q: I'm 21 years old and I'm a senior in college. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months. The ...
  A: Joel. Thanks for your question. The great news is that you made the first and the most important ...
I am curious11/22/2006
  Q: I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months or so and I we really don't spend that much time ...
  A: Hey, Melissa. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, however, I need a few more details: ...
i want him to be jealous11/22/2006
  Q: there is this guy i like and i want to know how to make him jealous and show me that he feels the ...
  A: Jan. Thanks for your question. Before I can answer it, I have to clarify a few things: 1. How old ...
Follow up11/20/2006
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for just a day, What can I do To make her like me more? and ...
  A: Jade. Thanks for your question. So, you have been together for one day (I can't help but smile at ...
boy i love doesnt like me.11/19/2006
  Q: its a long story but theres this lad called jamie and i propa like him! But, he was with this girl ...
  A: Lizzie. Thanks for your question. I believe I understand the situation, and here is my answer: I ...
my jealusy issues are hurting me.11/17/2006
  Q: Yes im pregnant from the guy I'm currently with thats why it hurts me too because I always wanted my ...
  A: Lucy. I am sorry about your situation and I understand it much better now. I really have ...
constantly jealous11/14/2006
  Q: I have always been jealous when my girlfriends in high school would hang out with someone besides ...
  A: Monica. Thanks for your question. Jealousy is a serious issue, but I believe you have already made ...
Follow up11/14/2006
  Q: I mean that...........what am I supposed to act when I'm with her.............have some tips?
  A: I have a lot of tips. In short: being (1) interesting (2) different from other guys and (3) being ...
his attitude is killing me11/14/2006
  Q: no i live in india and my city is palampur.
  A: Well, Amishash. Then the only rational thing I can suggest is asking your managment to transfer you ...
Jealous of a co-worker.11/14/2006
  Q: I work with my GOOD friend. We have a rare and unique friendship with more inside jokes than you ...
  A: Rod. Thanks for your candid question. I don't think it's a typical case of jealousy, and therefore I ...
im so jealous please help11/13/2006
  Q: it mainly started on Fri my fiance plays an online game alot and there is this girl around=d my age ...
  A: Danielle. Thanks for your question. I am sorry you feel the way you do. I prepared a general article ...
In love with old friend that is taken and jealous11/13/2006
  Q: This girl I am in love with was a good friend of mine years ago. She seemed to think I was a good ...
  A: Sakka. Thanks for your candid question. First, I hope you learned and still remember the lesson - ...
Ex Boyfriend11/12/2006
  Q: I seen my ex boyfriend the other day. I walked off the bus with my friend and he must have seen me ...
  A: Good job, Natz. I like how you walked away demonstrating to him that he has no place in your heart ...
This is a whopper..11/12/2006
  Q: Boy, this is a whopper.. where to start? For a while before we got engaged, my fiancee and I lived ...
  A: Aeriell. Thanks for your question. While the situation is quite complex, my answer and solutions is ...
Jealousy11/10/2006
  Q: I just started dating this girl and shes great. Shes got a no nonsense approach to things. I have a ...
  A: Jim. Thanks for your question. Your problem sounds typical of a young man and I assume that you are. ...
my friend's ex11/10/2006
  Q: I have a friend who lives out of state. Recently, I told her that I really liked her and that I'd ...
  A: Elvira. Thanks for your question. I am not sure I understand you correctly. 1. What are you ...
I'm jealous with my Friend11/9/2006
  Q: ............ymmm....I just asked my girlfriend a comment about me......and she saud that I was ...
  A: Mark. Thanks for your question. I see your girlfriend isn't holding back, is she? ;) Anyway, ...
I'm jealous with my Friend11/8/2006
  Q: Um.....Hello again!......can I ask for advices on how to avoid jealousy or to lessen the jealousy ...
  A: Hey, Mark. Thanks for following up. I believe I attached to my previous answer to you a few general ...
I'm jealous with my Friend11/7/2006
  Q: ....Me and my girlfriend are happy with each other....but when my friend is with her, I feel so ...
  A: Hey, Mark. Thanks for your question. I think you have already made the first and the most important ...
Help im Jealous and i dont want to be11/7/2006
  Q: I have been dating my BF for 12mths now. For the last 4mths we have started long distance due to ...
  A: Stacey. Thanks for your question. Normally, I passionately advocate abandoning jealousy due to its ...
Im jelous for no reason, and it's affecting us11/4/2006
  Q: Im a female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. It is his first ...
  A: Hey, Alex. Thanks for your kind words. I appreciate it. Before I forget, if you haven't rated me yet ...
jealousy and please rate me on this site...11/3/2006
  Q: I'm sure you get the same question everyday, but here it goes anyway. Me and my gf (were both 24) ...
  A: Aaron. I understand the situation, and you are right, I get this question quite often. I prepared ...
I need help dealing with jealousy11/3/2006
  Q: This is a two part question, I guess. I am 18 years old and a freshman in college. I have been with ...
  A: Evan. And thanks for your question which truly dazzled me. When I read it, I felt like it was ...
Im jelous for no reason, and it's affecting us11/2/2006
  Q: Im a female and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. It is his first ...
  A: Alex. Thanks for your kind question. I believe I understand the situation. I am really happy that ...
he's so jealous10/30/2006
  Q: my boyfriend will say that I'm doing something and I'm not. He imagines that somebody is behind him ...
  A: Great decision, Shawna. Indeed - jealousy can be a major problem and moving in with someone who has ...
hey10/30/2006
  Q: My girlfriend and I are thinking about getting back together.... I want to keep the spark alive if ...
  A: Cody. Thanks for your question. Right away I want you to remember one rule of love and life from ...

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