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about a year ago me and my boyfriend went out to this small party, we got into a big fight and i walked home and left him there. he ended up going home with another girl (she sleeps with anyone and dresses like a prostitute). this girl is my friends friend, so i knew where she was staying. i came over to pick my boyfriend up in the morning and when i walked in the door they were lying in the bed together, and my boyfriend was in his boxers. i got really pissed off but i took him home anyway. he sez that he didnt do anything with her, but hes a massive liar (from past experience) so i dont really believe him. even if they didnt have sex him being a horny male would have been feeling her up while she was asleep and that makes me angry to. i asked him if he wanted to have sex with her, and he said that he got erect once (yeah right) while they were watching tv and she was lying on the floor. i dont love him and i want to break up with him, but its hard because we've been together for so long and when i do tell him to leave, he wont go. i feel like i hate him sometimes. there is a party this weekend that this girl will be at, and me and boyfriend are going. i get jealous when i see her because she is pretty and has massive boobs, because i know that boyfriend is most probably not telling me the whole truth about what happened. i dont want to get jealous because i dont think he is worth my time but i do anyway. what are your thoughts please? can you answer my question please, last time i asked someone a question here she didnt reply
Answer Hi, Sam. Thanks for your question and I am sorry about what happened.
I believe it would be a better idea for you to evaluate your relationship as a whole. It sounds like there is much more to it than that incident a year go. From what you say - I can't quite figure out why you are with that guy. Do you like him? Are you attracted to him? Do you find him interesting as a person ... or the only reason you are with him is because you already spent a long time together and you just don't want to drop something which you invested your efforts into. Please take a moment to think about this and give me and yourself an honest answer.
Also, tell me how old you are, how old he is and how long you have been together, and I will follow up.
