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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Is he interested?1/22/2012Natalia A
  Q: I went on a date with a trauma surgeon. He's a busy guy with crazy working hours obviously. I'm a ...
  A: I can't tell if he's interested or not, but I'll tell you what I can. From what you wrote, I don't ...
Major problems with my girlfriend's parents12/23/2011Natalia A
  Q: My name is Joshua and I am 21 years old. My girlfriend is also 21. We both live at home with our ...
  A: Ok, this is kind of tough, but what I'd recommend in these cases is that you talk directly to her ...
my gf parents won't let us date or see each other12/21/2011Natalia A
  Q: My name Is James and my girlfriends name is kelsey.iwe stay in South Africa.about 2 years ago me and ...
  A: Talk to her about intervening for you and talking to her parents about how she's decided to give you ...
My mom doesn't like my boyfriend.12/19/2011Natalia A
  Q: I'm hoping you can help me. I have been with this guy for almost eight months now and I am ...
  A: As harsh as it might sound, you need to put a deadline on the relationship. Tell him that if he ...
Girlfriends mom extremely controling11/23/2011Natalia A
  Q: There are a lot of stories I could tell but her family has a business and so do I. I realized when ...
  A: Well put yourself in her situation... I mean, how would you feel if your significant other paid your ...
My Boyfriends parents ruined us11/15/2011Natalia A
  Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We both are so happy being with ...
  A: Sadly, right now the ball's on his court, you've tried to reach out to his parents and it hasn't ...
My mum found all my love letters! How embarresing!11/12/2011Natalia A
  Q: I hope you could provide me with some help in my awkward situation. :s I'm in a long distance ...
  A: Okay, first of all talk to her about it. You should have done this a while ago and it's therefore ...
Girlfriends Mom Hates Me, Girlfriend is to afraid to stick up for me,10/28/2011Natalia A
  Q: Ive been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years whom I really love and we've been a happy couple ...
  A: Talk to your girlfriend, tell her she should back you up or help you in someway. Once you have ...
My Boyfriend's Dad is Keeping Us Apart10/18/2011Natalia A
  Q: My boyfriend's father is interfering with our relationship. We've been together for about three ...
  A: A first step would be finding out what it is that he dislikes so much about the two of you being ...
my bestfriends dad hates me10/5/2011Natalia A
  Q: first off ill start by saying that I'm 16 and my best friend is 16. i love my best friend. i always ...
  A: This is something she has to sort out with her dad, she has to make it very clear to him that she's ...
My parents hate my boyfriend and won't meet him at all because of something from his past9/19/2011Natalia A
  Q: I am 20 years old and in college and am extremely happy right now. BUT there is a huge problem. My ...
  A: First and foremost, I have to ask whether moving out is an option for you... Depending on how ...
afraid to speak to my dad8/25/2011Natalia A
  Q: im afraid of speaking to my dad and im afraid what the consequences would be if i wait? im the girl ...
  A: For next time, please post this as a follow-up question (only for organizational purposes). Well it ...
Parents are not accepting him8/25/2011Natalia A
  Q: I am in a relationship with a guy who lives in London,UK and i live in Toronto,Canada.Im 22years old ...
  A: Well it seems to me you answered your own question :D What you have to do is talk to your parents ...
Friends or Boyfriend?8/24/2011Natalia A
  Q: I need some advice. My parents are making me choose between my friends and my boyfriend for my ...
  A: Right now? you can try to get the permission to go to both. Is anybody who can drive going to the ...
forgiving2/8/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: My gay best friend of 9 months told me one day that he had realised he was bi-sexual and in love ...
  A: I honestly think that this decision is up to you and no one else, but do you really want him back in ...
OverControling, CloseMinded Mother2/7/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I've been going out with this girl for roughly 4 months,and at the start it was great! Until about 2 ...
  A: Can you think of a reason for her mother to change her opinion so quickly? It sounds quite strange ...
Family or man I love?2/7/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I am put in a tough situation and I need advice. In 2009 I moved 2000 miles away from home to go to ...
  A: That is a difficult situation, but can I ask why did you not tell your father you had moved in with ...
Sick of my parents being restrictive2/6/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: So here's the deal: Before I started dating my current boyfriend, I was really shy and had few ...
  A: I think you should speak to your father about this, he was the one would set up and agreement with ...
dad2/6/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: my name is liz and i'm 14. my parents got divoreced when i was little. ever since i can remember ...
  A: I think you need to have a talk with your dad and say that you feel embarrassed by the whole thing ...
problems with parents1/31/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: First Hello.Im 15 years old and im really stress . i have a big problem with my fother.i have a ...
  A: Why do you think your dad is like this, is he just over protective or has there been an incident in ...
How do I tell them?1/27/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I'm in a big crisis. I started seeing this guy. He's awesome and things are progressing slowly but ...
  A: There are so many risks with internet dating, but luckily it looks like you have found a lovely guy. ...
my boyfriend's father1/18/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: my name is becky and i'm 17. my bf and i have been together for a little over a year. we are very ...
  A: I think you should speak to your boyfriend again, tell him that you feel really uncomfortable around ...
My mother hates my fiance1/10/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I'm 29 years old and my mother doesn't like my fiance at all. She trys to be nice by faking it for ...
  A: Your mother may be having a hard time adjusting to the fact that their is a woman in your life that ...
My girlfriends parents1/9/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: Ok so I've been dating this girl for 3 months now and shes 16 and I'm 17(we're actually a year and 6 ...
  A: Now I am not condoning your girlfriends parents immature behaviour when it comes to encouraging her ...
She is acting wierd1/5/2011Emma Elizabeth
  Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year;there is a six year age gap between us.I really love ...
  A: Can I first ask, has this only started recently or do you think his mom has always thought this way? ...
My girlfriend's mom HATES me, and idk why12/15/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I dont know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for a year in December and our relationship ...
  A: This sounds very strange that her mother would all of a sudden turn on you like this. But I don't ...
What to do when your girlfriends mom doesnt like you?12/13/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: my name's Aaron So the"What to do when your girlfriends mom doesn't like you, for no apparent ...
  A: Perhaps something has changed or happened to her mother in recent years and this is why she is now ...
parents wont let me see my boyfriend out side of school &one day at the mall12/12/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I want to be able to see my boyfriend outside of school, my mom only let's me go out with him to the ...
  A: Can I just ask why is your dad in the dark about the relationship? Is it not possible that he may be ...
My Girlfriends parents dont want her to be happy?12/4/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: if you respond to this, Awesome because i don't know who else to ask. Scenario: were both 18, we've ...
  A: To be honest this scenario doesn't seem that unusual. Firstly her parents and her siblings do want ...
I need freedom12/2/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I'm 15 and a freshman in highschool and my mom will never leave me alone. She checks my grades all ...
  A: That does seem strangely controlling, could their be another reason for this? Have you disobeyed her ...
Issues with parents when being in relationship.11/28/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: Hey. I am 18. My girlfriend is 20. We know each other for more than 3 months. I want this relation ...
  A: I think it's great you have found someone that your happy with, you parents are probably just ...
I love my girlfriend and simply want my mother to accept her11/26/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: So here is my situation. I met my girlfriend in college and she is my third girlfriend. We have only ...
  A: I understand this must be very upsetting for you, why do you think your mother dislikes her so much? ...
girlfriend's parents11/24/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for over ten months and i can't get her parents to accept or even ...
  A: Is does seem quite strange that they would not want her dating you because of age but then try and ...
meet the parents :|11/21/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I have a girlfriend that I've been with for two weeks, but we'vew known eachother for 5 months now. ...
  A: That's such a horrible thing to happen to her, I'm so sorry to hear what happened to her and I hope ...
My girlfriend's overprotective parents11/13/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for over 3 months now. Im 17 and she's 14 going on 15. Her ...
  A: It sounds like her parents do like you but it doesn't stop them from being protective over their ...
Grandmother and Uncle in uproar over bf staying overnight11/12/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: I recently started dating a childhood friend I got back in touch with a year ago. Now that I've been ...
  A: From what you have said I can't see the problem either you are a grown woman and should be treated ...
RELATIONSHIP11/9/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: My name is Yusra. I am an 19 years but I am in love with a 26 years man and this is almost the third ...
  A: Now your parents seem like the protective type and here's the thing, I think however you tell them ...
relationship11/9/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: gday.. my girlfriend and i have been together for 14 months, she is divorced with 2 children and ...
  A: I know this must be a hard and very confusing time for you both. But she is a grown woman and she ...
angry dad11/8/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: i need help sorting out my problems, Ok first i just broke up with my ex 6 weeks ago he was my first ...
  A: Dads are normally very protective of their daughters and be always be wary of any boy they are ...
relationship11/6/2010Emma Elizabeth
  Q: gday.. my girlfriend and i have been together for 14 months, she is divorced with 2 children and ...
  A: Can I ask what happened between you and her dad to stop him even letting you in the house? It seems ...

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I'm young but I've had my own struggles with my parents trusting me, not to mention that up until a little while ago they were still very controlling, so naturally I read a lot on the subject because I was concerned my friends and boyfriend were turning away from me. Eventually, I managed to solve my own problems with them.

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