About Jennifer Bailey Expertise I can answer questions involving how to keep your in laws/ parents from interfering in your relationships. Whether it has to do with friends or a love relationship. I have had bad experiences in both of these areas. I will give an honest answer and try my best to help.
Experience I've had relationships that have ended because of this sort of thing happening. I am married and have also had these types of problems in these areas.
Question Hi.My name is Jen and im 19 this year. I met 3 guys in January this year. BoyA is a student, studying pre-med.BoyB is also a student, studying marine engineering. BoyC is well, a full time badminton player. I first had a connection with BoyB.We had chemistry and we spent most of our time together. I dated all 3 of them at the same time and all there of them knows about the other 2. So in other words its all fair. Later in March,i choose to be with BoyC. We had a wonderful month until things started to fall apart because of one small mistake i made.Well, we both stay in different states. He lives 170KM away from me.So one day i drove to his place to watch a tournament. I stayed with him for one night. That day was the day our problem started. As his family is a typical asian family, manners plays a big role.So does appearance and up bringing. Apparently i was being impolite, which i did not even notice. Anyways, from one thing led to another. Now his parents wants him to cut off all connection with me. No meeting up no calling no texting. In other words..To the extreme.I still love him and care for him and he does too. We both want to work this out but we dont know how to face his parents. What should i do? How should we deal with this?
Answer Jen,
Depending on the legal age where you're from and how old your boyfriend is, your boyfriend should not let his parents interfere. He needs to have a talk with them, and tell them that you two care alot about each other, and that if they thought you were being impolite, you didn't mean anything by it. If your boyfriend wants this relationship to work, he needs to tell his family to stay out of the relationship and to be happy for him.
