About Jennifer Bailey Expertise I can answer questions involving how to keep your in laws/ parents from interfering in your relationships. Whether it has to do with friends or a love relationship. I have had bad experiences in both of these areas. I will give an honest answer and try my best to help.
Experience I've had relationships that have ended because of this sort of thing happening. I am married and have also had these types of problems in these areas.
Question Hi this is reguards to this guys problems i have similar problems but i dont know how to deal with them my gf is 17 and im 18 me and her been going out for almost half a year we broke up 1 and got back together and now since weve taken a break from one another i miss her and my feelings are so strong for her and she is the same for me it all boils down to mine and her's mom we both have single parents which label me and her and think where not good for eachother her mom forces her to write hate mail to me i just egnore it im willing to talk to the mom and say what ive always wanted to say about me and her but my gf says its not a good idea
Have any thoughts are ideas of what i can do here be much appretiated :P
Answer Ben,
You and your girlfriend need to haev a talk with both Moms. Tell them that you both care a lot about each other and it hurts you a great deal that they are acting this way. Your girlfriends Mom making her write hate mail to you, is wrong. Your girlfrend needs to stand up to her Mom, tell her that she will NOT write hate mail to you! Your Mom's need to realize that you two are grown now and that you need to act like it.
It would be best for your girlfriend to deal with her Mom and you deal with your Mom. You don't want to make things worse than what they already are.
Hope this helps, anythign else let me know!
