| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
|
| Boyfriend can't get off with me | 11/8/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a twenty-something female. I am in the beginning (4-month stage) of my second romantic ...
A: as you inferred, he's probably not gonna admit to anything; i'd inform him that unless/unti there's ...
|
| Female Arousal | 11/2/2009 | Azure |
Q: I met a girl two years ago. I fell in love with her, but discovered she had a boyfriend which she ...
A: appears to be a contradiction of terms, unless she means something different then the general ...
|
| My husband has low sex drive | 10/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a 41 year old and my husband is 58 9 will turn 59 in Dec) When we first met 4 years ago we ...
A: not a question of a mind change; the guy either has a physical issue, is seeing someone else, is ...
|
| A few questions about sex | 10/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am 18 years old. I have never had sex. I have done a lot of research on having sex, more ...
A: not worrying about the pain will make you more relaxed and make it less painful--childbirth is ...
|
| sex | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: Lately i have been having trouble getting horny. Not only with my girlfriend, but even with myself. ...
A: yeast infections and periods aren't very sexy things to think about; you have to change your ...
|
| hey | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: I've been in a sexual relationship with my boyfriend for a year and 9 months now and i'm starting to ...
A: since you just had an orgasm, i'd say your sexual enjoyment problem is lessening on its own; as for ...
|
| Oral sex issue? | 10/29/2009 | Pete |
Q: Hey Pete, I am 20 yr old female that cannot orgasm to oral sex. I enjoy very much giving my bf head ...
A: Fromn what you say it sounds as if your boyfriend is doing everything right. What I suggest is that ...
|
| erection problem | 10/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: I have been married for one year. Me and my wife having regular & successful sex. Since last two ...
A: It sounds as if you have developed performance anxiety. Relax more and slow down your love making. ...
|
| keeping hard after i have came | 10/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: a few years ago i was able to have sex for a long period of time an hour plus and stay hard after i ...
A: As men age, it is common for the refrationary time (ie time between erections) to increase. There ...
|
| Awkwardness after making a move on a friend | 10/27/2009 | Pete |
Q: There's this girl I am interested in that I've hung out with for a few weeks. A couple days ago we ...
A: I think that the best thing you can do is have a conversation with this girl and work out what you ...
|
| Love my man, but hate his sex | 10/24/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am in my mid-twenties and have been seeing a man in his early 40's for about 8 months now. I love ...
A: some parts might be changeable, some not; for example, his hang up as to the oral probably isn't ...
|
| peeing sensation during oral | 10/23/2009 | Pete |
Q: During sexual intercourse i sometimes stop and start to give my boyfriend oral, when this happends ...
A: I am not sure how old or sexually experienced your boyfriend is, but I have a strong suspicion that ...
|
| low libido | 10/20/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am male, 40, with low sex drive. Are there any over-the counter meds or herbs that will get me ...
A: life extension (LEF.org) has a product called "prelox" that might help; you can also see an ...
|
| performance issues | 10/18/2009 | Pete |
Q: I am 30 years old and separated from my girlfriend for about 4 months, I have recently meet some one ...
A: It sounds to me as your sexual confidence has been affected by the separation. You need to remind ...
|
| Emotional issues with sex | 10/16/2009 | Pete |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, and we have been sexually active for most ...
A: It could be that your girlfriend feels that she is not experienced enough sexually and therefore ...
|
| no orgasm | 10/15/2009 | Pete |
Q: ive been married to my wife for about a year. before that we dated 3 years. before i keep going with ...
A: A lot of women get the most orgasm from clitoral stimulation rather than penetration. This is why I ...
|
| Why am I a pervert and can't stop thinking of girls?!? | 10/14/2009 | Johannes |
Q: I'm 17 and I can't stop thinking about girls and sex. I'm a virgin but I tend to masturbate a lot ...
A: At your age, you are not alone. Most males during the peak of their puberty masturbates a lot. ...
|
| SEXUAL | 10/13/2009 | Pete |
Q: ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and the first week of dating we had sex but 17 mouths ...
A: Going to the doctor is a good idea - there are many possible causes for your situation. Once you ...
|
| Sex too intense... | 10/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and the sex has always been good and very ...
A: there's no magic answer; the rule of thumb is, do what feels good, eliminate what doesn't; i doubt ...
|
| I can't get an erection with my wife | 10/10/2009 | Johannes |
Q: I hope I found a right place on the net to ask my question and raise my concerns. I am 30yo man and ...
A: I am not so sure about this but I think since the day you got married you may had been telling ...
|
| I can't get an erection with my wife | 10/10/2009 | Pete |
Q: I hope I found a right place on the net to ask my question and raise my concerns. I am 30yo man and ...
A: From what you have told me, it appears that you have some sexual performance anxiety issues that ...
|
| sex | 10/9/2009 | Johannes |
Q: sir i want to share some confusions that i have regarding sex sir i feel i am getting weaker ...
A: I am not sure but when you said regarding your penis, did you mean level of erection? If you did, ...
|
| doubt | 10/7/2009 | Johannes |
Q: hai though i'm feeling ashamed of my behaviour i'll tell u shortly.. i'd a boy friend whom i ...
A: If your boyfriend had indeed used condom, there is no way you could be pregnant. Your delayed ...
|
| One way sex life | 10/7/2009 | Pete |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. About 6 months ago we moved in together, and ...
A: It sounds as if there are some issues that need to be cleared up between you as a couple about what ...
|
| about sex | 10/7/2009 | Pete |
Q: .... I and my partner had oral sex today. His fluid fell on upper part of my body. After that i had ...
A: The chance is slim but vaguely possible. If you are concerned, see a doctor immediately and get ...
|
| pain during sex | 10/7/2009 | Pete |
Q: As i had asked earlier my husbands dick is very big and i get pain when we have sex as it remains ...
A: There are a few issues that need to be addressed. Firstly, a lot of the discomfort you are ...
|
| Fallow-up | 10/6/2009 | Azure |
Q: Although you might think that its a waste of time/energy. It's not. I know what you might be ...
A: .i don't recall the original question however; generally, my opinion of long distance arrangements ...
|
| How can i improve my sex drive? | 10/5/2009 | Johannes |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over two years we basically live together and our relationship is ...
A: Your situation is fairly common among those who people who move in together and spend time together ...
|
| Sex when in love causes complications | 10/3/2009 | Pete |
Q: I have been with my partner for 9 months now sex when we first met wasnt much of a problem but for ...
A: It sounds as if your partner is dealing with some form of psychological erectile dysfunction. There ...
|
| Loss of respect | 10/3/2009 | Azure |
Q: Some of my partner's behaviors have caused me to lose a bit of respect for him, which in turn has ...
A: i don't blame you...we could debate using the term "addicted", but no matter; he could easily ...
|
| we dont have sex any more | 10/2/2009 | Pete |
Q: children and have been together for 15 years, both in our early 30's. I need some advice though as ...
A: While it can be a real challenge to get your fiancee to admit that 50% or more of the issue about no ...
|
| unawareness | 9/30/2009 | Pete |
Q: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to ...
A: Let me explain it for you again: When you know you will not be disturbed, get naked and lie on your ...
|
| sex | 9/29/2009 | Pete |
Q: how come i don't always cum when I'm having intercourse with my boyfriend? he always cums and then ...
A: The first thing you have to do is relax and become pleasure focused. The more stressed you become ...
|
| hymen-follow up | 9/28/2009 | Azure |
Q: thnx for ur quick answer azure..no, we solve the problem of my vagina wetness as we added more ...
A: certainly, the hymen, if you're sure it's still there, would prevent any deep penetration...the ...
|
| unawareness | 9/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to ...
A: when I mean stopping and starting, I mean stopping masturbating when you feel close to ejaculating ...
|
| we dont have sex any more | 9/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: children and have been together for 15 years, both in our early 30's. I need some advice though as ...
A: If your fiancee is not prepared to talk with you about your lack of a sex life, as a couple you need ...
|
| follow- up | 9/28/2009 | Azure |
Q: U gotta get over these hang ups.. How is respecting a woman so she doesn't have to swallow semen a ...
A: first you said it was "disgusting and wrong", then later, "if she wants to swallow, then ok"..you're ...
|
| follow- up | 9/28/2009 | Azure |
Q: U gotta get over these hang ups.. How is respecting a woman so she doesn't have to swallow semen a ...
A: listen, when you've had oral sex with 100 women, then you can talk about what women want or ...
|
| follow- up | 9/28/2009 | Azure |
Q: U gotta get over these hang ups.. How is respecting a woman so she doesn't have to swallow semen a ...
A: that's not respect---women aren't obligated to swallow--they WANT to, either because they like it ...
|
| Less intense orgasm for my Boyfriend. | 9/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: My boyfriend and I have ben together for a while and we both have had previous bf/gf. Our sex ...
A: Stress can do funny things to libido. It is most likely that this is the cause of his issues. I ...
|
