| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Semi erection | 11/20/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm 37 years old. I've never had a problem getting a full erection before. I recently ...
A: possibly a physical issue, or more likely, performance anxiety, which can occur with attractive ...
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| wife hates sex after mariage | 11/18/2009 | Azure |
Q: i have been married for 25 years now. Before marriage wife was very sexually agressive and did all ...
A: you're about 24 years late writing this; at this point, i doubt anything is changing; why you've put ...
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| Can't reach orgasm | 11/16/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm 18 and I've been sexually active since 15. Since then I've only reached orgasm 6 times; twice ...
A: since you've had orgasms, i don't think past issues are the problem; it's more that you're too ...
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| Lack of Sex After 50 | 11/15/2009 | Azure |
Q: My wife and I have been married for over 35 years. Two kids who are gone from home now. We had a ...
A: i wouldn't call it a problem, unless YOU view it as such...some guys your age have no interest ...
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| Lack of Sex After 50 | 11/15/2009 | Azure |
Q: My wife and I have been married for over 35 years. Two kids who are gone from home now. We had a ...
A: word of encouragement: accept the unchangeable--as to whether her lack of desire for you is one of ...
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| Cunnilingus | 11/14/2009 | Azure |
Q: Hey Azure, so I'm 19yrs old and I'm a virgin. I'm in college and all I always hear is guys talking ...
A: every girl is somewhat unique, every guy has his own opinion; hard to describe the general ...
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| Cunnilingus | 11/14/2009 | Pete |
Q: Hey Pete, so I'm 19yrs old and I'm a virgin. I'm in college and all I always hear is guys talking ...
A: Each woman smells and tastes different just like all men. Personal hygeine is important and a ...
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| Sexually Confused | 11/14/2009 | Pete |
Q: Lately i've been having some very confusing thoughts. I am with a girl called Sarah that loves me ...
A: It is possible for a person to get a lot of sexual pleasure through a partner of the same sex, but ...
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| Facinated by Girls Bums | 11/13/2009 | Pete |
Q: "Hi, I am a 19 year old guy with a strong facination for girls arses. I get turned on and aroused ...
A: The arousal you are having is normal. I just would suggest that you use this arousal to meet girls ...
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| Boyfriend can't get off with me | 11/8/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a twenty-something female. I am in the beginning (4-month stage) of my second romantic ...
A: as you inferred, he's probably not gonna admit to anything; i'd inform him that unless/unti there's ...
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| Penis size question. | 11/4/2009 | Pete |
Q: I didn't know where to ask this but I am 14 and my penis is about 9 inches long. Is that small? Will ...
A: You have a penis that is larger than normal, and there is still a chance that it might continue to ...
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| Unenjoyable sex | 11/3/2009 | Pete |
Q: My boyfriend and I have recently started having sex. It doesn't work. He's quite big yet in many ...
A: Sorry for the delay getting back to you - I have been dealing with a death in the family. I suggest ...
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| Female Arousal | 11/2/2009 | Azure |
Q: I met a girl two years ago. I fell in love with her, but discovered she had a boyfriend which she ...
A: appears to be a contradiction of terms, unless she means something different then the general ...
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| Sexual | 10/31/2009 | Pete |
Q: Hey, I'm Brittany and I have a few questions. First, I got a purity ring and now I kinda wish I ...
A: Sortry for the delay: there has been a death in my family. The bottom line is that sex is the most ...
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| My husband has low sex drive | 10/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a 41 year old and my husband is 58 9 will turn 59 in Dec) When we first met 4 years ago we ...
A: not a question of a mind change; the guy either has a physical issue, is seeing someone else, is ...
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| A few questions about sex | 10/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am 18 years old. I have never had sex. I have done a lot of research on having sex, more ...
A: not worrying about the pain will make you more relaxed and make it less painful--childbirth is ...
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| sex | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: Lately i have been having trouble getting horny. Not only with my girlfriend, but even with myself. ...
A: yeast infections and periods aren't very sexy things to think about; you have to change your ...
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| hey | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: I've been in a sexual relationship with my boyfriend for a year and 9 months now and i'm starting to ...
A: since you just had an orgasm, i'd say your sexual enjoyment problem is lessening on its own; as for ...
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| Oral sex issue? | 10/29/2009 | Pete |
Q: Hey Pete, I am 20 yr old female that cannot orgasm to oral sex. I enjoy very much giving my bf head ...
A: Fromn what you say it sounds as if your boyfriend is doing everything right. What I suggest is that ...
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| erection problem | 10/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: I have been married for one year. Me and my wife having regular & successful sex. Since last two ...
A: It sounds as if you have developed performance anxiety. Relax more and slow down your love making. ...
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| keeping hard after i have came | 10/28/2009 | Pete |
Q: a few years ago i was able to have sex for a long period of time an hour plus and stay hard after i ...
A: As men age, it is common for the refrationary time (ie time between erections) to increase. There ...
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| Awkwardness after making a move on a friend | 10/27/2009 | Pete |
Q: There's this girl I am interested in that I've hung out with for a few weeks. A couple days ago we ...
A: I think that the best thing you can do is have a conversation with this girl and work out what you ...
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| Love my man, but hate his sex | 10/24/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am in my mid-twenties and have been seeing a man in his early 40's for about 8 months now. I love ...
A: some parts might be changeable, some not; for example, his hang up as to the oral probably isn't ...
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| peeing sensation during oral | 10/23/2009 | Pete |
Q: During sexual intercourse i sometimes stop and start to give my boyfriend oral, when this happends ...
A: I am not sure how old or sexually experienced your boyfriend is, but I have a strong suspicion that ...
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| low libido | 10/20/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am male, 40, with low sex drive. Are there any over-the counter meds or herbs that will get me ...
A: life extension (LEF.org) has a product called "prelox" that might help; you can also see an ...
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| performance issues | 10/18/2009 | Pete |
Q: I am 30 years old and separated from my girlfriend for about 4 months, I have recently meet some one ...
A: It sounds to me as your sexual confidence has been affected by the separation. You need to remind ...
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| Emotional issues with sex | 10/16/2009 | Pete |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, and we have been sexually active for most ...
A: It could be that your girlfriend feels that she is not experienced enough sexually and therefore ...
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| no orgasm | 10/15/2009 | Pete |
Q: ive been married to my wife for about a year. before that we dated 3 years. before i keep going with ...
A: A lot of women get the most orgasm from clitoral stimulation rather than penetration. This is why I ...
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| Why am I a pervert and can't stop thinking of girls?!? | 10/14/2009 | Johannes |
Q: I'm 17 and I can't stop thinking about girls and sex. I'm a virgin but I tend to masturbate a lot ...
A: At your age, you are not alone. Most males during the peak of their puberty masturbates a lot. ...
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| SEXUAL | 10/13/2009 | Pete |
Q: ive been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and the first week of dating we had sex but 17 mouths ...
A: Going to the doctor is a good idea - there are many possible causes for your situation. Once you ...
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| Sex too intense... | 10/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and the sex has always been good and very ...
A: there's no magic answer; the rule of thumb is, do what feels good, eliminate what doesn't; i doubt ...
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| I can't get an erection with my wife | 10/10/2009 | Johannes |
Q: I hope I found a right place on the net to ask my question and raise my concerns. I am 30yo man and ...
A: I am not so sure about this but I think since the day you got married you may had been telling ...
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| I can't get an erection with my wife | 10/10/2009 | Pete |
Q: I hope I found a right place on the net to ask my question and raise my concerns. I am 30yo man and ...
A: From what you have told me, it appears that you have some sexual performance anxiety issues that ...
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| sex | 10/9/2009 | Johannes |
Q: sir i want to share some confusions that i have regarding sex sir i feel i am getting weaker ...
A: I am not sure but when you said regarding your penis, did you mean level of erection? If you did, ...
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| doubt | 10/7/2009 | Johannes |
Q: hai though i'm feeling ashamed of my behaviour i'll tell u shortly.. i'd a boy friend whom i ...
A: If your boyfriend had indeed used condom, there is no way you could be pregnant. Your delayed ...
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| One way sex life | 10/7/2009 | Pete |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. About 6 months ago we moved in together, and ...
A: It sounds as if there are some issues that need to be cleared up between you as a couple about what ...
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| about sex | 10/7/2009 | Pete |
Q: .... I and my partner had oral sex today. His fluid fell on upper part of my body. After that i had ...
A: The chance is slim but vaguely possible. If you are concerned, see a doctor immediately and get ...
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| pain during sex | 10/7/2009 | Pete |
Q: As i had asked earlier my husbands dick is very big and i get pain when we have sex as it remains ...
A: There are a few issues that need to be addressed. Firstly, a lot of the discomfort you are ...
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| Fallow-up | 10/6/2009 | Azure |
Q: Although you might think that its a waste of time/energy. It's not. I know what you might be ...
A: .i don't recall the original question however; generally, my opinion of long distance arrangements ...
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| How can i improve my sex drive? | 10/5/2009 | Johannes |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for over two years we basically live together and our relationship is ...
A: Your situation is fairly common among those who people who move in together and spend time together ...
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