AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy. No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence. Asking for help is a sign of courage - not weakness.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
Past/Present Clients I do not discuss past or present clients
Question Me and my girlfriend have been dating for three and a half years we have a son together and are planning on getting married. I was her first guy to have sex with. Well we got the wedding planned then she wanted to push the fate back well after that she told me that she wants to sleep with another guy. I am not for this at all. She said I could do the same but she wants to know what's it like to be with another guy before we get married I told her its fine I don't want her to buy its fine cause I don't want is to break up later on down the road for that reason or her cheating on me. I love her so much and done so much for her. I just want to know if I done the right thing or not and do other girls feel the same way about that I just don't understand the whole thing and I need some advice. Please help me.
Answer Hi Tyler
Thanks for sharing with me.
At the end of the day, the choice is hers.
However, there is a lot to be said for an exclusive relationship:
minimal chances of infections
nothing to compare with (can be a big deal later on)
reassurance that the partner will always be there for them.
Sure it it normal to wonder what it would be like to have other partners, but humans are very jealous regarding sexual partners and there is a tendence to regret open relationships.
You must tell your partner how you feel about this possibility: it is not the sort of thing that will sort itself out by ignoring it.
