AboutJohannes Expertise I have the ability to give mature and appropriate responses to questions regarding adolescent and early adulthood sexuality. Inquiries regarding gay and lesbian activities will be answered without moralizing on my part and will be purely gender sensitive.
Experience I am a clinical psychologist as well as a college educator who specialize in sexuality and had been doing lectures, seminars and actual classroom teaching regarding the topic for the last 12 years. I also have a weekly radio program that listens to sexual, emotional, social and personal problems of adolescents and young adults that they themselves cannot discuss openly with peers or members of the family
Question hai
though i'm feeling ashamed of my behaviour i'll tell u shortly..
i'd a boy friend whom i loved deeply and i was sincere to him i trusted him too but now he gone away from me.. during our love we both had sex several times but using condoms.. i'm having irregular periods problem too.. at last we had sex on SEP 23rd but i got periods by AUG 20 as last till now i didn't get periods now i'm much scared about my periods date.. even though we had sex using condom i'm much scared whether i'll pregnant pls clear my doubt that whether i'll get any problem due to this how to find out that i'm not pregnant??? pls clear my doubts.. and one more question due to these illegal activities whether my my future husband will find out that i'd sex before with some one ... if so whether there is any remedy for this... whether i can marry a person within 6months??? clear me all this..
regards..
maaya
Answer Dear Maaya,
If your boyfriend had indeed used condom, there is no way you could be pregnant. Your delayed menstruation could be caused by stress that you feel right now. There are available pregnancy tests kits on the market. They are easy to use and will help you lessen your worries.
If a man you would marry really loves you, he will understand. You have trusted someone you should have not trusted at all but it does not mean you cease to be lovable. If a man really loves you he will love you for what you are not for what you have.
If that man comes to your life, tell him the truth and tell him how you trusted someone and that someone broke your heart. Hiding you state will not help you maintain a healthy relationship in the future.
