AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
Past/Present Clients I do not discuss past or present clients
Question Dear sir, I am 30 years old and separated from my girlfriend for about 4 months, I have recently meet some one else but the problem is I am having a problem getting an erection when it most counts. Theres no problem obtaining one any other time.I am active and at optimal weight. its been about 3 months since I had any sexual encounters and I didn't have a lot of partners either(two partners in 30 years). Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Answer Hi James
Thanks for sharing with me.
It sounds to me as your sexual confidence has been affected by the separation.
You need to remind yourself that you are OK as you can get an erection at other times.
Slow down when you are in a romantic setting,aim to give at least 30 minutes of oral sex before starting penetration. If you need extra stimulation using doggy style for a few minutes.
