How to Deal with Sex Problems/sex

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sir i want to share some confusions that i have regarding sex
sir i feel i am getting weaker regarding my penis and i don't know what are the symptoms in occurrence of which a person must visit the doctor also i feel pleasure when doing handjobs and i want to do that regularly and which i do almost every second day
sir will that create problem in my sex life in years to come
further i want to ask you that i am feeling much more sensitive and usually shoot cum in almost no time and also tell me what is the normal color of cum,my cum is like greenish in color
thanks
waiting for your guidance

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Dear Davis,

I am not sure but when you said regarding your penis, did you mean level of erection?  If you did, erection is affected by health, age as well as level sexual arousal.  If you are healthy, young and really sexually aroused, the greater erection you will have.  I guess you don't have to see a doctor yet for the reason that you are not happy with the kind of erection that you have. What you are experiencing is fairly normal because not all men could become highly sexually aroused all the time.

Masturbation (hand job) again is fairly common among men.  There is nothing wrong with it unless it affects your social, professional, emotional and sexual life like you would prefer masturbation than to have sex with your wife or not to report for work because you have to masturbate etc.  I am sure you are not like that.

The penis is really sensitive.  Most men would come in seconds unless they use different methods to delay their ejaculation or use condoms because condoms reduce the sensitivity.  The usual color of the sperm cell is whitish yellow but the color becomes more whitish if the man ejaculates more than twice in a given time.  Sperms would turn more yellowish if it is not released for a considerable lenght of time (like a week or longer).  Your worry about the color of your sperm may just be nothing unless it has unpleasant odor or you start to expereience pain during ejaculation.

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I have the ability to give mature and appropriate responses to questions regarding adolescent and early adulthood sexuality. Inquiries regarding gay and lesbian activities will be answered without moralizing on my part and will be purely gender sensitive.

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I am a clinical psychologist with an MA in Counseling as well as a college educator who specialize in sexuality, and had been doing lectures, seminars and actual classroom teaching regarding the topic for more than 15 years. I also have a weekly radio program that listens to sexual, emotional, social and personal problems of adolescents and young adults that they themselves cannot discuss openly with peers or members of the family

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