AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
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Question My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. About 6 months ago we moved in together, and around the same time he made the decision that he wanted to wait til marriage for us to have sex again. (until then, it was pretty regular) This I was fine with, however I still felt the need to please him so I started giving more oral. He, of course, could not object to this, so it became a very regular routine. Now, dont get me wrong, he never asks for it per say, but I cant just ignore it when hes laying there rock hard. I have no problem pleasing him however he is comfortable with... its just a very rare occasion that I even get touched anymore. I couldnt tell you the last time I was given the same attention... To make it worse, we did have sex about a week ago and he couldn't cum. Help?
Answer Hi Jama
Thanks for sharing with me.
It sounds as if there are some issues that need to be cleared up between you as a couple about what sexual activity you will have before marriage. It needs to be fair for both of you; not one sided.
Your boyfriend needs to sort out his ejaculation issue - it is probably anxiety caused.
Remember, the more open and honest you are as a couple, the stronger is your relationship.
