AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
Past/Present Clients I do not discuss past or present clients
Question QUESTION: Hi Pete,
I never thought I'd need an advice like this one. I'm very happy with my soul mate of ten years, we both have high sex drive, our energy is way up there, with amazing multiple orgasms, my gushing...very,very playful,(it's been like five times a week thing at least). It did changed a bit "down" from time we moved into this co-op where it seems to me I can hear every single thing around us, combined walls are not helping at all. He keeps telling me it's all inside my head.During my PMS it's even worse...and the worst thing is,I need him MOST during those days prior my period. We don't feel like moving anymore...kids school..etc....Is it there any way of getting this solved beside moving out?
I do miss living in a house...with some space...Here, everything is like smashed together, or I'm having some weird hangups in my head? just a while ago we had a fiasco, I just quit our intimacy as i felt as choked...
We're even doing it on the stairs with every door closed. Am I sick? Can't take it anymore..it's taking slowly tool on us. Last neighbor was listening to us while smoking outside his door, under our windows! They moved out though...but still..am I so particularly possessed witch?
Thanks for any advice for us horny Goats! HELP!!!
Ella
ANSWER: Hi Ella
Thanks for sharing with me.
I am not sure how much of your issues are due to your living arrangements and insensitive neighbours and your own thoughts.
I guess the question you have to ask yourself is "Do I really care if I get heard during sex?" and if the answer is "yes" you must ask yourself why. Is it to do with embaresment, or something deeper.
Whatever you decide to do, keep your partner in the loop.
I wish you well
Pete
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QUESTION: Thank you Pete...I think it is something inside me, I am more sensitive when it gets to the privacy issues.I am deeply tuned in, I remember his frustrations with me while staying for three nights in a hotel...felt too many spirits around and I simply could not relax...as all the walls had ears and eyes...nothing couldn't help...it's just me...cannot relate to being somewhere else.I do like and need light,no problem with that(got great body)...as long windows are secured.I know...sounds crazy.I love everything with him, we're really open and do like to try out different things..nothing embarrassing there; Tantra,
you name it, toys, vibrators..with lots of towels:)
As long I feel safe...weird...I know. Is there any help?
Also my feeling are shifting around. It's hormonal..I guess.
My hormones are all over, got high testosterone...
I'm taking now some Chinese herbs and acupuncture..hope it will help as I realize now my shy boobies did started to slowly grow!It may be my European background, I'm more open with people, but still..thank you for your help Pete!
Answer Thanks Ella
I hope the chinese herbs and acupuncture help.
If not, consider having some hypnotherapy.
I can asure you as a professional clinical hypnotherapist that hypnosis, is safe, fast and effective for self confidence and sexual issues.
