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I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy. No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.

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How to Deal with Sex Problems - Worried about being heard during intimacy?!?


Expert: Pete - 5/21/2009

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Hi Pete,
I never thought I'd need an advice like this one. I'm very happy with my soul mate of ten years, we both have high sex drive, our energy is way up there, with amazing multiple orgasms, my gushing...very,very playful,(it's been like five times a week thing at least). It did changed a bit "down" from time we moved into this co-op where it seems to me I can hear every single thing around us, combined walls are not helping at all. He keeps telling me it's all inside my head.During my PMS it's even worse...and the worst thing is,I need him MOST during those days prior my period. We don't feel like moving anymore...kids school..etc....Is it there any way of getting this solved beside moving out?
I do miss living in a house...with some space...Here, everything is like smashed together, or I'm having some weird hangups in my head? just a while ago we had a fiasco, I just quit our intimacy as i felt as choked...
We're even doing it on the stairs with every door closed. Am I sick? Can't take it anymore..it's taking slowly tool on us. Last neighbor was listening to us while smoking outside his door, under our windows! They moved out though...but still..am I so particularly possessed witch?
Thanks for any advice for us horny Goats! HELP!!!
Ella


Answer
Hi Ella

Thanks for sharing with me.

I am not sure how much of your issues are due to your living arrangements and insensitive neighbours and your own thoughts.

I guess the question you have to ask yourself is "Do I really care if I get heard during sex?" and if the answer is "yes" you must ask yourself why.  Is it to do with embaresment, or something deeper.

Whatever you decide to do, keep your partner in the loop.

I wish you well

Pete

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