How to Deal with Sex Problems/worried about health

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QUESTION: HELLO  I AM 29 YEARS OLD I HAVE LEAKAGE PROBLEM SINCE LONG WHEN EVER I SEEN PRETTY GIRLS ,ANY SEX MOVIE OR ANY SEX LITERATURE I FEEL THAT I HAVE DROOP SOME THING FROM MY PENIS ITS HAVE NO COLOR LIKE WATER BUT LITTLE BIT GUMMY THE PROBLEM IS MORE WORSE DAY BY DAY ,I TOOK GOOD FOOD BUT MY PHYSIQUE IS VERY SLIM DAY BY DAY FEEL WEAKNESS,I AM GOING TO MARRY END OF THIS YEAR BUT I AM WORRIED ABOUT THAT I WILL BE ABLE TO PERFORM MY SEX LIFE  CAN YOU SOLVE MY THIS PROBLEM I WANT TO BE STRONGER MAN BY PHYSIQUE AND HEALTHY SEX LIFE.PLEASE SOLVE MY PROBLEM I WILL BE THANKFUL TO YOU.LOOKING FORWARD TO YOUR HEALTH REPLY SOON AS POSSIBLE

ANSWER: I think the clear liquid is  what is called "precum" in argot, and it is a natural way to lubricate and get ready for sex.
I do not see connection with the weakness and the liquid,that is why I sent a notice that this problem for me is very strange and out of my range.
Please check your physical health with a doctor.
Emotionally maybe there are several problems that are wearing you out.
Of course only with a letter like this I can not go deeper into them.There is too much information missing.
You will need to make an appointment person to person with a doctor.

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QUESTION: Defiantly i cant explain full details some information  missing i try my best to provide comprehensive information for diagnosis my problem, in my childhood i just hold my penis in both legs and try to enjoy from lust and clear liquid comes out by and by my penis bend  as i grow and i felt much pain if i  tried to hold penis in my  legs and after that due to pain i left to hold pines in legs but still its bend downward ,here still the problem is that why my penis drop that clear liquid without sex ,just i seen sexy girl , picture ,movies or think,i want to get rid of that problem ,one think is more my sperm color is yellowish not pure white,is there any problem ,i am worried about this it is very shameful for me  i cant be able to perform my sex life with my partner so before this i want to get solution ,treatment  ,please ponder on my case.

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First you will need to go to see a physician and ask him a complete exam including your sexual organs.
I do not know if the penis is curved due to the habit you had, many men have curved penis.
The liquid appears when men get aroused, it is the lubrication that naturally comes from some glands, this is not semen but has some spermatozoids in its composition.
I do not know if you could be sick but you are too worry that this compromise your health,
I wish you the best go and get a check up!

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Antoinette Proffer

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I studied Sexology in Venezuela, also have a Masters Degree in Cognitive Behavior Orientation. I can answer all types of questions about human sexuality. Couples, Individuals, Children issues are welcome.English or Spanish.

Experience

I studied in Venezuela in one of the most important centers for Sexologic Research, together with the Masters in Cognitive Behavior many myths and causes of sexual dysfunction could be solved and treated.We followed Masters and Johnson theories and techniques.

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American Montessori Society

Education/Credentials
Ms.Sc. Orientation Behavior, Sexology.C.I.P.P.S. Venezuela 1996. Bachelors degree Early Childhood Education, UNA, Caracas, Venezuela Montessori Certfication St.Nicholas Training Centre for Montessori Ed.London, U.K.

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In Venezuela, i worked with private practice in a clinic: Centro Medico Del Lago, Sexologist and Therapist,using Behavior Cognitive approach.Educator, Early Childhood. Montessori Educator,owner of Montessori Center in EEUU. Holistic Practitioner Internet sessions, On Line Therapist.

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