AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
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Question I am in my second marriage and i love my husband very much. He says he loves me and i believe him. The problem is that when i get wet he tends to go down. He tells me that it is not me, that he feels like he has a condom on and does not like the feeling. Also when we are having sex, just before he comes he goes down and in turn i am not satisfied. I have mentioned this to him, and he says he is unaware that he has gone down. He does not think he has. He says if he had gone down he would not come. But he does. Because he goes down just before he comes i am not satisfied at all. It is affecting my marriage. I have mentioned this to him and he does not think a sex problem should interfer in a marriage. But i do. I feel the lack of sex could ruin our marriage as i am not satisfied. Please give me advice.
Answer Hi Lucretia
Thanks for sharing with me.
It sounds to me that your husbnad is not dealing with his erectile issues and is attempting to blame your wetness.
He really should see his GP and get assessed. Sometime erectile issues are indicators of serious health problems.
Meanwhile, stay positive and know that it is not your fault.
