How to Deal with Sex Problems/Girls

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Hi everyone, i really need your help.
Im 17 years old from Glasgow,Scotland and im male.
The other day my girlfriend was over at my house and we were just lying in bed watching a dvd then she started to rub my cock from the outside of my jeans, then she took my hand put it down her thong and told me to start playing with her pussy, i could tell she was enjoying it she started to moan untill she squirted.She took her top off and then started playing with my cock(the night before we did the exact same but she gave me a blowjob and she didnt make me cum for about 20 mins)just thrusting it up and down then she garbbed on to my balls and started to shake them and then i was forced to cum everywhere, it was like 2 minutes.
I really need someones help because if this happens again i think she might leave me.
Thanks

Jason

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Hi Jason

Thanks for sharing with me.

It sounds to me as if you are dealing with nerves.

Allow yourself tobecome more pleasure focused.

Keep the communication alive in your relationship and slow things down so that you feel comftable rather than a perfoming seal at the zoo.  A sense of humoour is always a good thing.

Stay positive!

I wish you well

Pete

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I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy. No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.

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Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.

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Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy

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Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling

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I do not discuss past or present clients

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