Expert: Pete - 6/17/2009

Question
My boyfriend lift heavy weights everyday I have a problem sometimes it dus not take long for my boyfriend too masturbate when we have sex, sometimes it take too long and than I am not in the mood anymore but he stil wants to do it because he did't masturbate jet and then comes the time when we can have sex for hours and stil he wil not masturbate. when I ask him is it my fold than he wil say no and he say his not using anything. But It have never happen with the uther guys I have sex with, know what is the problem

Answer
Hi Verona

Thanks for sharing with me.

It sounds to me as if he is dealing with delayed ejaculation (inability to ejaculate) he should get professional assistance from a counsellor.

It has nothing to do with your ability to arouse him.

In the meanwhile he should be more considerate about his expectations of you sexually.

I wish you both well

Pete