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HI, so you asked me to stop masturbating, i should stop forever? or once in a few days? will this make me feel better as in i will know when i cumming out when i have sex?
why is my dick shrinking and hardening and shrinking after i have masturbate and attempt to have sex?
i wonder if cumming out from sex is the same feeling as masturbation?
if i stop using my hand, will this really improve?what is the reason that causes me cant feel if i cumming out?
as i said, try stopping for a week and see what happens;..you ought to know when you come, it's an OBVIOUS feeling...if u have to think about it, nothing happened..not sure about the shrinking/hardening...confine any type of sexual activity to 2/3 times a week
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