AboutAzure Expertise expertise: over 7000 questions answered...B.A. Psychology Bates College;graduate study, Fordham Univ. School Social Work...technical editor, "dating for dummies";thoughtful consideration of your question, then insightful advice about love,romance and related issues given in an objective, non-judgmental manner...over 20 years of personal experience in both short and long term relationships...longer term consultations are available uponrequest...life experience: personal involvement in many relationships where issues of love, sex, intimacy, trust, etc., had to be dealt with and resolved...just having "experiences", however, isn`t enough...it`s the thoughtful reflection upon and analysis of what happened and why, that leads to learning and enlightenment...so tell me what`s on your mind and i`ll try to help, or tell you if i can`t...thanks
Experience top expert at expert central.com...extensive background in psychology, social work, life experience...
Education/Credentials B.A. Bates College (psychology)...graduate study Fordham University School of Social Work
Question QUESTION: U gotta get over these hang ups..
How is respecting a woman so she doesn't have to swallow semen a hung up??
(Had to ask a new question so you could see this)
ANSWER: that's not respect---women aren't obligated to swallow--they WANT to, either because they like it and/or they enjoy giving pleasure; if a woman doesn't want to, she won't; SHE decides, not you...you pull away and they'll wonder what's wrong with you...
---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------
QUESTION: That IS respect. A lot of women DONT want to. I can't believe you say "they" want to. That's not true at all. Some do and some don't. I never said I decide of course she decides. If she wants to swallow then okay. But if she doesn't want to then what I am saying is that I will have the respect to move away. I would say okay im almost there and move away IF SHE WANTS ME TO MOVE AWAY. Why do you feel this away? You do not seem professional at all. I'm really sorry but your not who i thought you were. I really mean this with respect but your not who I thought you were at all.
ANSWER: listen, when you've had oral sex with 100 women, then you can talk about what women want or don't...now you've changed your statement..this one is a tad more acceptable...ps...i've answered your question and a bunch of follow-ups, and you thank me by calling me unprofessional?..i thought u were big on respect--be consistent...
---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------
QUESTION: My statement was always the same, you misread and misunderstood. I apologize for any misunderstanding. I don't believe in having sex with more than one woman. I don't believe in sleeping around. Are you telling me you've had many partners? That's not exactly something boast about. Listen, I think we both have just misunderstood each other through this thing. I respect women, as I am sure you do. I guess i just have different beliefs than you do.
Answer first you said it was "disgusting and wrong", then later, "if she wants to swallow, then ok"..you're just a kid---hopefully with more experience you'll get it figured out...and don't worry about the taste--do it because she'll love it...totally unfair ratings--i answered the original question with a clear, concise, polite, accurate answer, then graciously responded, honestly and objectively, to your MANY follow-ups, that i could have easily ignored; if you can't respect the efforts of VOLUNTEERS, stay off the site...
