AboutPete Expertise I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy.
No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.
Experience Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.
Organizations Full Member Australian Association of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling
Past/Present Clients I do not discuss past or present clients
Question how come i don't always cum when I'm having intercourse with my boyfriend? he always cums and then he ask me and when i tell him i didn't cum he thinks its his fault and i feel bad and blame myself,we have tried almost everything from eating me out to different positions to fingering me,and still nothing. How can i cum?
Answer Hi Ashlee
Thanks for sharing with me.
The first thing you have to do is relax and become pleasure focused.
The more stressed you become about orgasms, the less likely you will have one.
Something that you may not be aware of, but during foreplay, sex or even masturbation, if you ever have the sudden urge to urinate do not worry: it is the beginning of an orgasm.
Many women fear that when they have these strong urges they will wet themselves and their partner.
The truth is that it is not possible for men or women to urinate and be orgasmic at the same time. There are tiny muscles that stop the flow of urine during an orgasm.
The liquid that can be dispelled during a female's orgasm is similar to a man's pre-cum and is made by similar glands.
Also, more women have strong orgasms via oral sex and digital stimulation than penetrative sex (doggy style being the exception due to the penis stimulating the G Spot).
I think that armed with this imformation you will be able to have the intense orgasms you desire.
Make sure that you get plenty of pleasure and all will be well!
