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About Pete
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I am an Australian clinical hypnotherapist and counsellor who can answer all questions to do with male sexuality and questions relating to intimacy. No problem is too big or too small. You can ask in total confidence.

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Comprehensive experience in hypnotherapy and counselling in Australia over a number of years. I have two very successful clinics that cater for people what to make permanent positive changes in their lives.

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Bachelor of Arts Degree, Post Graduate Diploma of Education, Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Graduate Diploma of Psychotherapy & Counselling

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How to Deal with Sex Problems - unawareness


Expert: Pete - 9/28/2009

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QUESTION: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to post my question to you in a hope to get detail answer
my question is that i usually ejaculate my sperms within two minutes i am confused whether that time for jerking is more or less
secondly is cuming daily or regularly is injurious to your sex life and i some body is not married yet     


ANSWER: Hi Davis

Thanks for sharing with me.

Firstly, 0-2 minutes is considered to be premature ejaculation.  

Most men who have this issue have trained themselves through masturbation to bring themselves to orgasm as quickly as they can, thinking that it feels so good doing so.  The truth is that prolonged masturbation or sex is even better.

All you need to do is slow down and pay more attention to the glans (head of the penis) as it is the most sensitive part and using high quality water based lube masturbate until you are close to the point of no return, stop, let the moment pass and then build up your tempo.  Stop when you are close to the point of no return etc and keep doing surprised for as long as you like.

With practice you can last even past an hour.

When you stop and start as i have suggested above you will have a more intense orgasm as usual.  Don't be surprised if you also release more semen than usual too.

Frequency of ejaculation is relative to your age and libido.  A fit and healthy male should have no problems ejaculating as often as needed.

This website may be of interest to you: www.jackinworld.com

I wish you well

Pete

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QUESTION: sorry for disturbing you again
sir what you mean by starting and stopping of masturbation, sir when i am on verge of shooting cum from my penis i hold my penis firmly and do not let the cum out of my penis,Is that good or not
i can also cum before complete erection of my cock when i want to do such is that normal
waiting for your honest opinion
thanks  

Answer
Hi Davis

when I mean stopping and starting, I mean stopping masturbating when you feel close to ejaculating and starting when that urge passes.  

With a couple of sessions you will develop more control and in time you will be able to last as long as you wish.

I trust this makes sense to you now.

It is not a good idea to put pressure on your penis when you are ejaculating as it can cause severe pain.

Let me know how you go.

I wish you well.

Pete

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