Expert: Pete - 9/30/2009

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QUESTION: actually i feel ashame of asking something related to sex with any body else thats why i choose to post my question to you in a hope to get detail answer
my question is that i usually ejaculate my sperms within two minutes i am confused whether that time for jerking is more or less
secondly is cuming daily or regularly is injurious to your sex life and i some body is not married yet     


ANSWER: Hi Davis

Thanks for sharing with me.

Firstly, 0-2 minutes is considered to be premature ejaculation.  

Most men who have this issue have trained themselves through masturbation to bring themselves to orgasm as quickly as they can, thinking that it feels so good doing so.  The truth is that prolonged masturbation or sex is even better.

All you need to do is slow down and pay more attention to the glans (head of the penis) as it is the most sensitive part and using high quality water based lube masturbate until you are close to the point of no return, stop, let the moment pass and then build up your tempo.  Stop when you are close to the point of no return etc and keep doing surprised for as long as you like.

With practice you can last even past an hour.

When you stop and start as i have suggested above you will have a more intense orgasm as usual.  Don't be surprised if you also release more semen than usual too.

Frequency of ejaculation is relative to your age and libido.  A fit and healthy male should have no problems ejaculating as often as needed.

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I wish you well

Pete

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QUESTION: sorry for disturbing you again
sir what you mean by starting and stopping of masturbation, sir when i am on verge of shooting cum from my penis i hold my penis firmly and do not let the cum out of my penis,Is that good or not
i can also cum before complete erection of my cock when i want to do such is that normal
waiting for your honest opinion
thanks



ANSWER: Hi Davis

when I mean stopping and starting, I mean stopping masturbating when you feel close to ejaculating and starting when that urge passes.  

With a couple of sessions you will develop more control and in time you will be able to last as long as you wish.

I trust this makes sense to you now.

It is not a good idea to put pressure on your penis when you are ejaculating as it can cause severe pain.

Let me know how you go.

I wish you well.

Pete

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QUESTION: sir how can i let you know that i hold my penis and not letting the cum out
really speaking it is not causing any pain but prevents my costumes of being getting dirty
sir is that good to stop just before the point of no return and doing that several times and again and in last you actually donot end it properly mean you left it and not shooting cum
in same way the next time doing same starting and stopping and not shooting cum. Is that fair
waiting for your kind response
take care

Answer
Hi Davis

Let me explain it for you again:

When you know you will not be disturbed, get naked and lie on your bed.

Masturbate with water based lube with emphasis on your glans (head of penis).

When you feel that you are close to ejaculating, stop.

Let the moment pass.

When it has passed, start masturbating again.

When you feel that you are close to ejaculating, stop.

Let the moment pass.

When it has passed, start masturbating again.

Keep doing this for as long as you like.  

Aim to last 15+ minutes.

With practice you can last over an hour.

When you are ready to ejaculate, relax and enjoy the intense orgasm.

Do this practicing at least 2-3 times a week depending on your libido and your available time.

I hope this helps.

Pete