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How to Deal with Sex Problems/My Boyfriend Refuses to Ejaculate


steelmaher2003 wrote at 2012-11-22 16:34:52
I am 43 and this happened to me when I was 37-39. I could ejaculate by masturbation but would never ejaculate during sex. It was basically my wife was all focussed on getting pregnent the 2nd time and   i kind of used to switch off. When she gave up I was normal and have been so for last 4 years. PRESSURE TO PERFORM IN ANY MANNER CAN CAUSE LOSS OF EJACULATION ALSO IN SOME CASES. I felt used

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