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Im a female, I have had sex with men and women although i never felt anything remotely pleasureable, it just felt like nothing. I have never been horny and i have never had an orgasm. Is there any reason why i am like this? I have never suffered any trauma as a child. When i was a teenager and everyone's sex drives kicked in i dont think mine did. Is there anyway i can change this so i can finaly enjoy sex?

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Some people are just naturally born without a sexdrive, not many, but you're not the only one.
If you really want it changed, you'd have to go to your doctor, tell him the problem and see if you can get hormonal injections to change your situation.
This is just like why some people are ticklish and some are not- it's not an illness or disability- so think carefully before you make changes to your body.

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Johnny St. Tai

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We often ask questions of the unseen and unknown, but most of the times, we're the ones that hold the key. I'm a counselor in family/sexual relationship, anger management, and self help, and have been for upward of ten years. I'm here to help you see the blind-spots that you've missed, and guide you toward the light. I'll research your problem/s/ and maybe even offer phone counseling if you so desire. Don't ask me about future, I haven't bought my crystal, haha. Don't ask me medical questions, without examining your medical history and person, I cannot answer such- best to seek out a local professional to be safe. Sex is a wonderful thing, so let us try to make it so.

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Ten years of professional and voluntary counseling works have shown me much. I have walked with many others through various issues, some obvious and simple, some nearly impossible to imagine.

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Richmond Chimo Crisis Center

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Interpersonal/Social Relation Specialist, University of British Colombia Socialwork, 2005.

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