How to Deal with Sex Problems/What is sex actually

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I had been in a relationship for four years and we had just oral * in physical term. He guy seemed totally into me but things didn't work out and I am married to another guy after our breakup. Though I am married since three years now and have one year old baby, I still haven't felt orgasm till now. Sex means intercourse to me and didn't feel anything. Just something moving in me The feel of kissing my bf was far better than the same with my husband. I have a feeling that the penis of my husband is always towards in the direction of gravity unlike my bf ( I noticed during oral time) and it is shorter during erection.  Please advise as to how to feel orgasm and sex life.

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Hi Kiran,


Orgasms, for some women are hard to come by.  Usually it is a matter of technique.  And techniques can be improved.  A penis of 5 to 6 inches should be enough and with improved techniques and different positions even 4 or so can give you that elusive orgasm.

Here is a link to a book that should help you.    

The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can Orgasm


You may find some other helpful information at my web site Tom Blair - Sex Coach

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Sexual Relationship Coaching. Published author. I am comfortable answering questions dealing with most areas of sex.

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Sexual Relationship Coach Neural Linguistic Practitioner Hypnotherapist Internationally read author. Retired Educator All relationships are based on having certain needs being met. Healthy relationships are ones where there is a mutual meeting of these needs. Respect, honesty, communication are just some of those needs When those needs and others are not being met, the relationship will fall into disrepair. Together we will identify those needs and work to correct the imbalance. It is not too late, love can be rekindled. And it can last a life time.

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