How to Deal with Sex Problems/Oral sex

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Hi.  Are men completely turned off by women who won't perform oral sex?  Is it something a woman should do anyway, even if she's not comfortable with it?  Thanks

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Not all men want oral sex.  The ones who do know that some women won't perform it.  In most cases, it doesn't completely turn them off, but a man who is eager for oral sex is probably less interested in a woman who won't provide it and would probably be inclined to find a woman who will.  

I don't think a woman performing oral sex against her desires would be an enjoyable experience for either partner.  So I think you should discuss it with your partner and find out how important oral sex is to him, if at all.

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