How to Deal with Sex Problems/cant get it hard


ive been with my boyfriend for 6 mths and in the past 4 months we have not had sex. he claims its him and not me. he has a problem getting hard or staying hard for that matter. he claims its because hes either tired or because of his weight. he has gained alot of weight in the past yr 1/2
we have had discussions about it. he has even gotten upset with himself ( halloween) when this occurs. what do we do??

If your boyfriend is having erection problems due to his weight or otherwise, he should see his doctor.  The doctor could suggest things that would help, which might include diet and a prescription for an ED drug like Viagra or Cialis.

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