How to Deal with Sex Problems/On top



I am a healthy 25 year old guy.
During sex,i get tired quickly being on top and my penis goes soft.

No problems when im laying.

I am not too experienced.

Any tips?


As you mention, you are not too experienced.  If you're getting tired quickly, it would help to exercise more, weightlifting and such.  It would also be a good idea to abstain from masturbating for 3-5 days before having intercourse so that you will be greatly desiring it.  As you get more experienced, you can reduce the interval.

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