How to Deal with Sex Problems/Erection problem


Hi, I am from India. I am married  guy having one male issue. What I have experienced that when I thought to do sex with my partner my penis erects hard but when I got ready to insert it in my partners vagina it shrinks. Beleive me this is very painful which hurts me lot. Why this happens any treatment.

I think you're saying you're losing your erection soon after you get it and before you can enter your partner.  You don't say how old you are or how long you've been sexually active.  If you're new to sex, it can result mostly from inexperience.  As you take more time to get aroused and get to know your partner, you are ought to be able to last longer.

If you're masturbating frequently even though you're trying to have sex with a partner, that can keep you from getting as aroused as you need also.  Abstain from masturbating for 3-5 days before your next intercourse and see if it makes a difference.  

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