How to Deal with Sex Problems/ayuda


dear friend, after 4 episodes of  mayor depresssion, I have been 3 years without sexual intercourse with my wife. To be honest I do not feel desire, i feel I have a sexual disfunction. According to my psychiatrist I do not feel atraction to my wife because I am still in love with the last lady I fell in love with. What is your opinion?

I don't know what ayuda is, but I recommend forgetting about that last lady and instead focusing on your wife.  You're married to her.  If you don't feel sexual desire, it might be because of prescription medications you're taking for depression.  Maybe you can be prescribed something that doesn't have sexual side effects.

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